@brains.secret: Unpopular opinion but I honestly think there is no weirder feeling than pretending to be cool with someone after you found out something that completely ruined your view of them #brain #mind #mindset #psychology #relatable
The strange part is when your mind has already changed its opinion of someone, but your behavior still follows the relationship you had before.
2026-09-04 11:46:26
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sel :
I found out that my boyfriend ( ex now) had a wife but his father died on the day i found out so i had to pretend everything was fine and be there for him. I confronted him 3 weeks later and ended things
2026-09-07 02:46:35
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Nunya :
it's not called pretending.. it's called compartmentalization... you don't have to agree or like everything about people to be able to be around them and not treat them poorly
2026-09-03 18:10:54
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Yerva :
Going through this rn
2026-09-05 00:34:55
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V :
my friend N told me that my friend M was making fun of my friend O through notes in the middle of class. Friend M doesnt know I know and im irritated
2026-09-07 07:21:45
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Lyra :
I vividly remember in the locker room during PE they tried to fist bump me and I just awkward stood there for a minute while they insisted, before doing it and walking away. We never spoke again, they were one of my closest friends, and it was my birthday. 😁
2026-09-07 07:55:18
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𝓐𝓼𝓳𝓪 ♡︎ :
My bf ended up in jail.. Hes leaving soon but when he asked my onpinion before he did what he did even though he didnt end up doing it since he got caught but I told him im completly against it and that I dont want him to do it and I even cried over the phone and he told me “its not like Ill do it tomorow I was just asking for ur onpinion but Im sorry for making you cry“. He apolagized but he texted me that he went to do the job three days later after that call.. I love him I really do but I just dont know can I forgive him espesually because when I told him how much im against it and how dangerous it is he told me im being dramatic that its safe and that anyone would have told him what I have said. In that moment I felt like my onpinion and tears had no weight to them. Idk what to do instead of exitment that he is leaving soon I feel anxiety.. I just dont know will I ever be able to look at him the same. Am I wrong for wanting to end the relationship over this?.. I really need someones onpinion on this
2026-09-06 23:07:47
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Lena :
don't and just cut them off 😃even if you miss them
2026-09-06 12:55:25
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yram :
Just stay for live acting and drama
2026-09-07 06:15:34
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Riggz :
I find it incredibly abnormal not to put yourself in a person's shoes. Who you disagree with. or are angry with.
If I cannot come up with a way of understanding the person so I dont dislike them. I have failed to understand them and failed to be considerate.
2026-09-04 10:19:30
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Ghاhti££ :
so what are you using them for since you're just pretending to be cool with them?
2026-09-05 07:22:39
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Kryss Ivey :
It’s called survival
2026-09-03 19:30:57
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Nelly Ellie Luvs her 🎶🎼🎵 :
My “best friend” at the time told me her husband had been chatting it up online with a minor. Now we’re not friends because “I look at him differently”
2026-09-04 13:25:38
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Art123 :
No bc how am I supposed to pretend I don’t know or it isn’t tearing me apart…
2026-09-07 02:43:23
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LilRum99 :
its not called pretending its called tolerating them. but that only applies to some things
2026-09-03 17:03:23
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.. :
Esp when u find out their opinion abt something and don’t know what to do abt it
2026-09-07 02:52:41
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Grimmathorn :
ive stopped being cool with them. not gonna waste my energy 😁
2026-09-04 19:08:28
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Alicia :
I think it was more giving them the benefit of the doubt to give yourself time to really decide if you are able to really get to a place of being okay after the devastation.
2026-09-03 23:20:45
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CuriousEnf1n1ty :
Cut them out your life easy but if not possible (work colleague) play the game
2026-09-06 12:47:25
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ninazero :
abusive ppl
2026-09-06 13:59:17
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LeggyBoi :
yupp
2026-09-05 11:06:13
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Cellie6 :
Well I don’t pretend, it’s just realization that this person fucd up but you have the willingness to forgive but never forget
2026-09-04 04:16:18
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Cârjeru’ :
Bro, i my bro took out my talking stage, an he knew he did wrong and i told him he is a bitch for that and then we acted like it never happen because i know his temper and i knew he uin feel emotionaly in debt.
2026-09-06 08:11:28
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