Unpunishable Woman
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Thursday 03 September 2026 11:39:43 GMT
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Miss..M :
I've noticed that people who want you to get married or have kids are the often the ones who have that life and assume that "that life" is what's best for you. I've had people question me relentlessly about why i don't wana get married or why i don't wana have kids, and in that moment they will, for a lack of better word, "decide", for me that I'm crazy and i don't know what I'm talking about when i say i don't want those things. And usually when i ask them, "what guarantees do they have that those things will joy into my life", they shift the conversation into making me feel as if im being difficult or just plain rude. People in my life , especially the women in my life, will flat out tell me "you need to follow suit now cos we're waiting for your wedding day, we're waiting for you to become a mother, you're next in line now".,without first asking me if I want those things. And i reply by asking them "why do i need those things for"? And their faces change, because they cannot get me to a point where i will agree with them, but in that moment, what they deem perfect for me, is what i should want for me because now they have the ring and the kids, so should i. And they invalidate me when I tell them i don't want that, and their reply is often "girl you're mad, there's no such thing as a woman not wanting to have kids, you're really telling me you plan to live your life alone, i cannot believe what I'm hearing"... I have a hard time as a single and childfree woman being around married people with kids, i cannot stand to be around them, because ultimately their goal will always be to do everything in their power to fit you into that little box that "all women are ought to be in".. And it's exhausting 🌼🌼🌼
2026-09-06 17:06:48
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AliyahHoodoo :
They think we are lying about being happy alone 😂
2026-09-03 17:13:33
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Sharr🧸 :
It’s Such a bore honestly!
2026-09-03 12:18:13
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ToyotaRolla90 :
Marriage is a business contract💯
2026-09-06 14:35:13
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Awurika princess :
They always want to associate it with some trauma that I don’t have. Like y’all marriages is the trauma I’m seeing it and I don’t want that for myself
2026-09-03 12:54:28
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SpicyYams32 :
Even if the decision is based on trauma or negative experiences, honestly what’s wrong with that?! We learn discernment through experience. If we correct course after negative outcomes, that should be a sign of intelligence and self respect and not an indication the person doesn’t have the capacity to make choices about what they want in life, or that they’re decision making is being hijaked by some other issue.
2026-09-03 17:01:47
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Behsharam(#Worldtok’s Version) :
If they could have known in advance how this app would let us see into each other’s lives so well they would never have allowed it to come here.
2026-09-03 13:13:51
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Cohhee :
they can't believe that we're completely ok with being alone 😂
2026-09-07 07:43:41
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Bethany🌙🐉 :
I also do not trust an institution that is encouraged by men, religions, government, and society in general. Like, who is gaining from being married? It’s not women!
2026-09-03 14:21:51
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Kelley_3.0 :
Hurt and bitter are the first words that typically come up 🤦🏻♀️and it often is a man who uses those words.
2026-09-04 02:59:37
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Big Kitty💜💜 :
They say marriage is a choice. Then get mad when you choose not to get married.😒
2026-09-03 17:23:43
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thedivorcepsychologist :
Questioning my judgment and sanity are the best ways to PMO. Don't question what I've already decided for myself.
2026-09-03 21:17:22
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blunt_perspective :
For some reason it agitates them more when you don’t have a reason and just “don’t want to”. They start spazzing and trying to conjure some sort or rational for YOUR decision making
2026-09-04 11:28:25
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Nostalgicvibes_Hiphop :
Even if there was trauma i fail to understand why that self awareness is subjected to scrutiny instead of praise. Choosing to stay single bcz of ur traumas signifies awareness.
2026-09-04 10:29:30
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JustV2U :
The "deep dark reason" is a clear and complete understanding that the institution of marriage was literally created to transfer ownership of a woman from her father (or other male relative) to her husband. The deep, dark reason is that I don't desire to be anyone's property.
2026-09-03 17:39:16
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Miche :
most folks know the why..they simply don't understand how you navigate the world happily and have audacity
2026-09-03 19:53:25
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Nancy does it all :
all the times!!!! i hâte it!! they always talking about oh you need therapy 🙄
2026-09-03 11:48:05
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red80 :
I am married. I 100% support your and anyone's decision to stay single.
2026-09-03 19:11:04
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Raven Hicks|RN&Landlord :
My mother keeps pushing me to get married again and have another child. I tell her ABSOLUTELY NOT, NEVER AGAIN ❤️
2026-09-03 17:49:15
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Ermina :
It's unbelievable how many people try to challenge me because I refuse to get married again after divorce that i literally almost lost my life in. I'm like r u serious?!? I was 20 when I was married but before that I always said I never wanna get married I wanna travel and everyone told me I was crazy, I should've listened to my gut lol
2026-09-03 18:43:47
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gabriele 🫶 :
Well it's a choice and should be respected. I am happy to live on my own.💯
2026-09-03 17:53:46
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Mariana D S Jobe :
Well said
2026-09-03 11:48:10
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claire.broad_soul.medium :
Fantastic post! 👏🏻
2026-09-03 11:55:59
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Stella&Nova :
Marriage was created to transfer the ownership of a girl to a man.
2026-09-05 19:06:28
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jess :
Buddha abandoned his family to reach enlightenment 😁
2026-09-05 02:17:19
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