love is not a choice, deciding to act upon the feeling or them reciprocating is
2026-09-03 13:39:15
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Cabbage_D_Merchant :
im afraid they don't know the difference between lust and love 😔
2026-09-03 12:47:39
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TheBadgerDM 🇵🇸 :
I platonically invited my platonic friend whom I hadn't seen in a while to a platonic visit to the Ren Faire for a day platonical fun. Then she stepped outta the car and my heart went
2026-10-23 19:28:32
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Chris Finnegan :
Anyone who believes love is a choice has never actually been in love.
2026-09-03 15:03:02
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Jack :
It’s not love unless it’s a choice
2026-09-03 22:19:38
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Fire :
love is a choice. attraction is not. love is something you work on with someone, attraction is just that "initial spark" you get with someone
2026-09-03 16:13:54
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✨️ow✨️ :
some of these people should look into aromanticism
2026-09-03 15:48:14
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🌙🪷🌸Magicalgirlrose🌸🪷🌙 :
I wish love was a choice, I've never fallen in love or even had a crush before on anyone, I can only dream of what it must be like. I can't even name a single time I've ever even found a man attractive except for fictional men. 😭
2026-09-03 16:50:25
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Nikita :
feelings are not a choice
how you deal with feelings is
2026-09-03 18:28:34
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antman683 :
not even lust is a choice all you can really choose is what to do with those feelings afterwards
2026-09-03 14:58:02
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Yama :
Love is not a choice, hate sure is
2026-09-03 17:36:00
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Gappy :
Let's say it is a choice. Why do they need so badly for you to choose what they did?
2026-09-03 13:12:08
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Habit :
If it was a choice, I promise so so many would choose to be straight to save them from being disowned, assaulted, killed, abused, and ignored by love ones or strangers.
2026-09-04 00:11:45
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Mr.GrabsUrBallsWithoutAsking :
PURSUING is optional, love is love and love is really not a choice
2026-09-04 21:43:55
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Braiden :
brendon urie wrote a whole song about this and we still have people who can't understand it 🤦♂️
2026-09-04 21:07:18
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dakota. switching account :
if love is a choice why do so many people "choose" to be gay when they will be killed
2026-09-03 16:28:47
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Jay :
I thought love is a choice. Then I realised I'm aromantic.
2026-09-04 04:07:45
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Simonorged :
attraction isn't a choice. if it was there wouldn't be a distinction between gay and straight.
2026-09-04 05:08:44
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💜Pookie 🐷🧪💜 :
You can only be public about that and I don’t believe lust or love is a choice
2026-09-03 19:37:33
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elegant.weirdo :
love is not a choice, trust me. i would not have chosen a MAN 😭
2026-09-03 14:01:48
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Marceline :
You can control who you lust after?? 😭
2026-09-03 14:45:09
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cashewthegay :
it is but its like food you might like mac and cheese naturally but hate asperegus but if you want to like asperegus you can keep earing it and eventually it will become enjoyable. yes i have tested this
2026-09-03 20:06:59
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TheSingleWayOut :
It is. Love is not an emotion. It is a chosen pattern of behavior that mutually uplifts those involved. The ephemeral flutters of the body is not love, getting up early to take care of the tasks that set yourself and your partner up for a smoother day. It is taking care of the more stressful tasks without directive. Love is a persistent and stubborn choice to support and improve your world everyday. You get to choose who is your world.
2026-09-11 20:37:29
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Jordan✞ :
Love is a choice. You’re describing lust.
2026-09-04 16:47:35
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Morty Smith :
Idk ,I kinda choose who I love ,mainly because sexual tension doesnt really affect me much ,I just hear someones mouth and start wondering if they're nice or not
2026-09-04 05:00:11
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