@thehealingcleric: Sometimes the only way to finally get over an avoidant is to reach out one last time and get the cold, dead response you already feared. Sometimes closure isn’t an apology—it’s realizing they really aren’t going to give you what you need. 🥶 #AvoidantAttachment #DismissiveAvoidant #BreakupRecovery #NoContact #Healing
Brother I reached out. The stove was hot 🔥 she was cold 🥶
2026-09-04 18:36:37
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sweeetheaven :
Nope! We had our closure 2 months ago .
2026-09-04 16:00:45
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Dee :
Respect yourself please don’t reach out u will feel worse!!
2026-09-03 19:11:00
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Maggie :
you gotta do, what you gotta do to move on.
2026-09-04 13:40:41
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mizzjohns :
I reached out got some clarity and now lm gone for good. The person he is now is who he has always been. The mask fell off. It’s hard accept but that is the reality
2026-09-04 19:54:30
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Rob, o Gringo Cantor 🇧🇷 🇨🇦 :
Was I your inspiration for this video?
2026-09-04 17:32:16
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briafromkorea :
I literally had to go back, get hurt again just to get confirmation that they truly are shitty and leave for good
2026-09-04 10:44:01
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russell_vent :
I reached out just a few minutes ago ☠️
2026-09-03 18:58:25
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Scott :
I don’t know what she is, I am unable to diagnose BUT I will say she texted 4 times, after 6 years of silence and I didn’t respond back. It was empowering and I also wonder what she thinks of me now that the backup plan, the option is gone?
2026-09-04 14:12:59
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Palomaroo🐩🐾 :
Nooooooooo sir. He stays blocked. It's for my own peace of mind 🙂↔️
2026-09-04 01:55:45
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Kaijenk :
Do it ts just turned me up!
2026-09-04 00:37:19
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Bravesgirl :
I did that but it was crickets
2026-09-03 18:28:39
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Pitties and Kitties :
I touched the stove. It hurts.
2026-09-04 02:46:05
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ash :
Can confirm, it does help.
2026-09-04 08:31:27
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dannieree01 :
Isn't no contact the closure? I want to understand, after a breakup there's usually always no contact. Am I wrong?
2026-09-03 23:37:42
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tiffanimarie5 :
I sent my goodbye letter. I’m good
2026-09-03 20:29:27
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imfromhere21p :
Broke 8 months no contact last Monday. I regret it . So cold, detached and no accountability. He spent 8 months building a case of why I was so toxic (ask for basic follow through). He did admit he was lazy but my reactions to it was the problem. I needed it to move on. He made it clear that I needed to move on and “have a good life”. 3 years and I was nothing to him 😔
2026-09-03 19:47:12
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Pita P :
yesss
2026-09-04 00:36:47
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Danny D :
my ex is an avoidant and she still reaches out to me and will always be super cool. I dont get it
2026-09-04 04:55:13
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Tiffany :
I have to do it so I can break my own heart then I will flip the switch and that’s when the other side comes out. And it’s a cold cold side.
2026-09-04 04:15:36
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ms.stephanie2026 :
This!!
2026-09-03 19:29:51
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Rico Jimenez586 :
naw i reached out to santa muerte
2026-09-03 22:36:43
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user64499961473 :
Worst advice ever
2026-09-03 18:39:06
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midas :
nope
2026-09-04 12:07:28
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MathAintMathing :
Did it 🙂↔️kind words were reciprocated…feeling free 🐦🔥🔥. Sucks for her being fucked over yet again by a boy 🌍
2026-09-04 15:49:08
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