@persianfarmgirl: Want your baby to learn how to sleep independently during the day? 😴☀️ #BabySleepTips #IndependentSleep #BabyNaps #NewbornSleep #SleepTraining
For the love. HOLD HER ITS OKAY this is why we’re all unregulated adults now. Connection over convenience sorry I said it 🤷🏻♀️
2026-09-04 05:33:22
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L :
I think the narrative of needing to independently sleep asap is archaic. And honestly not healthy. Tons of studies done. You can argue that it’s not healthy for parents or child. Guess what? You can co sleep, hold them to sleep whatever and they will eventually learn to do it on their own and be independent when they develop their brain enough to do it. You’re missing out on so much by doing this. This rush to get your child to sleep by themselves asap is lame. They learn to self regulate and have less stress response as they get older and laying that foundation for that to happen comes with no cry it out, holding to sleep co sleeping if comfortable. Only in the US do parents push one another to sleep independently asap. It’s crazy. They won’t be small forever they won’t need you forever. It’s been proven when you do co sleep and our contact nap they get like 30 thousand some odd extra hours of touch and closeness with you. Why wouldn’t you want that? Especially if you have the opportunity to be a SAHM. The dishes and your phone and your naps can wait. My son is 16 months old co slept from 4 months, contact napped till he he was over it he led the way totally. I get asked all the time why is he so confident and happy at 16 months? Cause his every single need is met he’s never once had to cry it out for anything. And guess what? My marriage is still awesome even though we co sleep, he self soothes now, doesn’t want to be held at all to sleep. It took 16 months. I think you all will live. Stop pressuring one another and making one another feel bad cause your miracle baby slept thru the night at 2 months old and others didn’t.
2026-09-04 03:06:04
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paigeeverly1 :
Thank you for sharing this. So many parents pick up immediately when a baby starts to fuss. Fussing is not the same as crying. Fussing isn’t distress, it’s uncomfortable. Because it’s kind of uncomfortable trying to figure it out by yourself. But it’s really important for their brain health and their brain growth.
2026-09-03 23:21:38
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Life is Beautiful :
ITS A BABY. HOLD THEM
2026-09-04 01:13:54
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hbrady2019 :
I’m not saying this is wrong but personally, the world tries to get them to grow up too quickly so I’ll try to keep her my little girl as long as she’ll let me. I know there will come a day when she stops reaching for my hand or needing me in the middle of the night so I’ll enjoy being needed for the time being. She’s two months old and I know it won’t be long before she doesn’t want to be held and she’s just going to want to run around or she’s going to fight taking naps with me so letting her sleep on my chest and getting all the snuggles now while I can is the best thing! She’s already becoming independent on her own and putting herself back to sleep at night. She might be fussy for a couple minutes but by the time I would go to get her, she’s already asleep. Enjoy these hard times because you’re going to look back and miss everything that you did to “make life easier” slow down and enjoy them!
2026-09-04 03:30:22
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Dd :
Babies need to be held. They spent 9 months in your womb. They can sleep on their own when theyre older. This narrative of independent sleeping when theyre still infants is ludicrous. Lets be real.
2026-09-04 09:44:41
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Sandy :
Omg I don’t know if I can learn this 😭 my heart is pounding, I wanna pick her up lol
2026-09-04 00:01:06
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Owenisfineforme :
God forbid you share your best practice and others rush to invalidate it. Thanks for sharing this!
2026-09-04 05:27:16
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continue :
if they sleep 10 hours at night...you don't wake them up for a feed ??
2026-09-05 02:45:53
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ChasityJo :
I don’t think this would work for my baby he will scream at the top of his lungs stop to catch a breath and get right back to screaming 😭
2026-09-04 07:10:49
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. :
Do u then transfer to bassinet when fully asleep?
2026-09-04 23:27:44
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Lola and the Pack 🇨🇦 :
LOVE THIS! Great Job Mama.
2026-09-04 22:55:54
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Lauren :
So glad to have seen this! We’ve been practicing independent naps at 11 weeks and it’s so hard to know when the noises are too much. Sometimes it’ll escalate to crying and sometimes it won’t, it feels like a crapshoot! It’s been like this since 8 weeks or so.
2026-09-03 22:32:55
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graham cracker :
aw
2026-09-03 17:55:59
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Sarah :
Hell nah
2026-09-04 18:33:39
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Janeth :
My daughter is 5 weeks old and she will fuss for a minute and then go straight to screaming turning purple if we don’t pick her up. Is she just to young ?
2026-09-03 23:37:18
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Juli Ana :
Just hold the baby 🥰
2026-09-04 05:32:27
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torimorgyn :
girl no
2026-09-04 02:44:47
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valenziablue :
@valenziablue: This is the best skill you can’t teach your child: to fall asleep on their own. My kid is 4.5 y/o and sleeps 12h a night since 5 months old. In almost 5 years she’s only come to my bed in the middle of the night like 3-4 times. From 8pm to 8am I don’t have to worry about the kid (watch her through a camera). She LOVES sleeping and she’s such a calm and independent kid ♥️
2026-09-04 05:22:54
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dariyandjesus :
People are wild? They’re acting like that amount of crying is detrimental to the baby! That baby is fussing not screaming 😂
2026-09-04 20:01:53
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Jemenow :
I tried this..and omg!! it worked like magic! how did you figure this out?? mine didn't even cry he just let out a couple whines and that's it! THANK YOU!
2026-09-04 17:44:07
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J 🇨🇦 :
I have 5 kids and a degree in early childhood education and you're very much wrong! Babies show many different clues in body language and behaviour that signal their needs long before they start to cry. The goal is to meet those needs before they cry. Crying is the last resort for them. What you are teaching that baby is that no one is coming for them so they eventually stop crying. This creates an insecure attachment and can lead to issues throughout life including into adulthood. There are many studies on this if you'd like to google.
2026-09-04 17:35:27
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shellzigirl :
Good job mom !!!!
2026-09-04 19:21:38
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Yaya.akz :
What about babies that are colic or potential reflux?
2026-09-04 02:24:32
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