@calvalynday: I HAD to stop immediately and stitch my good sis. I see too many therapists buying into the it will get better EVENTUALLY line. I need you to know the same way that your degree didn’t earn itself, and your practice didn’t open itself, your situation won’t improve itself. Take action for the things you want and stop settling for suffering.
Whew I thought I was going coco for refusing to suffer in certain situations in my life. This is good thank you! 💯
2026-09-03 17:39:10
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justalittledeer :
I agree but some people mistake being uncomfortable with suffering
2026-09-03 21:11:52
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electricalsign :
agreed. also lets normalize not congratulating ourselves for "being a good person" based on how much suffering we tolerate. Not letting some ppl learn the hard way is not letting them learn. Saying yes to things we dont wanna do just bc we have too much anxiety to say no is just being afraid. Consenting to help others when it is a overwhelming burden then using it against the person later, is not being a better person, its just taking on too much.
2026-09-03 20:19:51
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Dr Tanisha Guy (only page) :
You are correct we condition ourself to believe this should be happening. Absolutely no maam, no ham no turkey.
2026-09-09 14:19:14
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Linda Torres :
You are so right! Most of us are afraid, embarrassed, to ask for help so we just struggle on. I'm kind of that person in our family and I love helping everyone whenever I can but hate to look weak or needy or stupid when I need help.
2026-09-16 22:14:54
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vermilion_flycatcher :
Brilliant 👏👏👏
2026-09-03 18:34:09
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hoodtherapistfrmtheeburb :
Suffering is a choice because WHY are we fighting against reality ? 🥰DBT🥰
2026-09-03 22:45:14
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jay :
wow-this is deep.
2026-09-03 18:16:10
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uwsmamma :
yup
2026-09-03 20:00:04
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It's TIME !! :
worse, you get envious of ppl who don't suffer like you. you miss the opportunity to just progress
2026-09-03 20:42:36
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