Jon and Ashley Lefrandt
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Thursday 03 September 2026 18:46:23 GMT
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pinky :
in my opinion, this is the true core of many Mother-in-law vs. Daughter-in-law rivalries. Mom can't stand to see her child growing away from the system, while Wife cant stand seeing their partner leaning into the dysfunction.
2026-09-06 12:01:08
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Mo.Fess :
My fyp really said FOR YOU
2026-09-04 03:44:36
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Krysten Peacock Salvatore :
And why is it almost always the daughter in law?
2026-09-05 13:17:49
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caelin | dr.mommy :
My husband tells me that he feels like I pulled him out of the matrix because he never realized how dysfunctional things were before I started pointing it out.
2026-09-04 11:43:40
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Katz :
And this is Why so many people have a problem with Prince Harry and Megan. Because when Harry Married Megan, he no longer felt the need to put up with the dysfunction.
2026-09-04 12:44:54
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Burton Langlois :
Whooow! Your heterochromia is incredible! So cool! And a great video too.
2026-09-04 14:32:21
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JustChristine🤷🏼♀️ :
Hi it’s me. And now we’re no contact. Because “I’m the problem” 😂
2026-09-08 22:02:23
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Geeked Family Side Quests :
Married the scapegoat in the family, became the scapegoat x2 😩
2026-09-03 21:55:43
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🇲🇽Chismosa🇲🇽 :
Yup! My husband was always expected to be around his family even if some of them were very mean to him/each other. When we married and got our place, I became the one who “alienated him away from his family” and that’s been the narrative ever since. I’m so glad my husband decided to stand up for himself and us.
2026-09-03 22:06:00
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KB :
My parents expected my husband and kids to make fun of me too.
2026-09-04 14:14:37
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nikki___________________ :
Oooff this was me. I kind of brought down the whole family (unintentionally). Except I am NOT from a ‘healthy family system’. It was just that mine wasn’t *quite* as dysfunctional as his. But yeah… those early years were tough because his mum really, really hated my guts. She still does but thank god he saw the light and is now NC.
2026-09-08 21:24:40
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Francis 🇨🇦 :
disney : Encanto. "we don't talk about bruno no no no"
2026-09-08 21:26:39
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Skipper :
Heaven forbid I point out that parents pressuring you to make them feel loved is a problem.
2026-09-04 04:14:54
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kimscoffeemug :
My mom loves to tell me “when your daughter marries and has children then you’ll understand how I feel” I understand NOW,but I don’t have to accept it and pass it down.
2026-09-03 20:13:17
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wife 🇨🇦 :
my husband was essentially his mother's husband and his brother's dad. they were both jealous of me and didn't want him to prioritize his life with me. super fun.
2026-09-08 15:50:58
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Lyddie 🌈 :
We have the added fun bonus that we’re lesbians, and my family had tried to send me to conversion therapy to ‘fix me’ when I was 19. She is my rock.
2026-09-06 22:56:05
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v.strother :
Your eye is so cool!!!!!
2026-09-03 21:53:48
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meg✨ :
Meeeeee 😂 my in-laws didn’t even try to hide it, just outwardly hated me. We’re no contact with all of them now lol
2026-09-03 23:44:08
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Raider Boi :
Proud disrupter here 😅
2026-09-04 09:43:46
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Emma Thompson ◡̈ :
It's me I'm the spouse
2026-09-03 21:03:22
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urmom :
I'm the scapegoat. when my mom (I'm very low contact) met my boyfriend she started making her small jabs but while smiling and laughing. I was always the butt of the joke. "she's such a complainer, isn't she?! ahahaha" (I'm the only child that holds boundaries and I don't let her run me over) my bf shocked me and didn't respond to her at first. he then said, "I don't think shes a complainer or anything of the sort. she's amazing and brings so much joy to my life, I can't relate to what you see at all" it was such a good response, because it wasn't rude. she just didn't respond and walked away. imma marry this man.
2026-09-07 02:19:24
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leni ⊹₊⟡⋆ :
i was my own family’s scapegoat, looking for loving supportive relationships. i became his family’s scapegoat too :/ i just want a mom 😭
2026-09-04 18:24:35
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