@c4tastr0phe3:

lyyyyyyyyyy :

'Tayo’ shouldn’t mean losing the ‘sarili.’ Kaya importante pa rin na may sense of individuality.

️ :

oh how i love it when we have individuality

🦊 :

we broke up because she said she would give up everything for me. she thinks it flattered me, but it's doesn't, it made me realize that it will not be worth it if the relationship has that kind of mindset. so I'd rather lose her, than lose her dreams for me

... :

As what I said from the start always choose yourself @ALT😊

Donii☆ :

woah, my complete thought HAHAHAHAH

M :

When she said “I don’t want you to make me your whole world because you have your own life before i came in, I’m already grateful that I’m part of it.”

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ITO TALAGA YUN EH. THOSE WHO GET IT, GET IT ! 🫶🏻

Luisss E. :

Okayyy

tripitropi :

The right love will never make you feel like you have to choose between them and yourself.

Lark! :

para sa akin ang lahat ng sa akin, pero sigurado akong siya ang unang papasok sa utak ko pag kailangan ko ng kahit sino🤷‍♀️

elly || DM2 :

thank you for reminding me to dream big for myself🤍

Lars :

U GET IT RIGHT!!! being ‘tayo’ doesn’t mean I have to lose who I am just because I love you

dee ⭐️ :

this!! kaya i resonate so much with fromm’s perspective on love!! i recommend learning more abt his theories 🤍🤍

uzi :

Sa last relationship ko, I had this mindset na, “I would drop anything for you.” Pero ngayon ko na-realize kung gaano pala ka-selfish ‘yon—selfish ako sa sarili ko. I was so focused on being there for her that I forgot I had a life of my own, too. My own friends, interests, peace, and boundaries. I can make room for someone without losing myself in the process. You deserve to be someone’s person without having to stop being your own person.

chey :

I wasn't in a relationship but this is my future partner would be dealing with cause I won't let my self lose just to feel love by someone who just came by.

Betty Augustine :

Saiyo ako pero akin ang mga pangarap ko. Walang sinuman ang pwede umangkin nun. Kahit sino. Kahit ikaw.

Jaymar🌸 :

Simple na kase ang relationship for this generation kaya na build yung iba na maging ganyan, for me alamin natin maiigi dahil dapat sa oras na pinasok mo buhay ng isang tao o naging partner mo, may bini-built kang panibagong buhay o hamon, so make na bago mo sundin ang puso mo dapat pinag-isipan mo na, looking forward sa future with her/him, kaya mag sacrifice and accept, mas maganda if karamihan ganto, handang magbigay at tumanggap sa isa't isa but kaya nga tayo may isip o katawan para kumilos pa rin, hindi mo iiwan ang nandiyan na bago pa man siya dumating, magkakaroon lng ng limitation, kaya mong kumilos natural na bigay ni lord. (Pag isipan mabuti before enter into his/her life, once you enter in his/her life handa kana sanang matuto, matutong magbigay at tumanggap, matutungkol may magbago at may baguhin, not all but for your partner)

user737485382847 :

sayong sayo ako pero hindi kita gagawing mundo ko kasi mas mahal ko ang sarili ko

⭐️ :

I gave too much of myself sa aking ex. So, to my next one, hope you understand why I love myself and my individuality so much

kayi :

Flannyyummyyy :

Kase why drop everything that was there before them? Why should you follow ridiculous standards in order to be proven as devoted for them? Why lose yourself for someone? When you can still keep the things that were before them, yet you may and can still also make them apart of the things you love. When you can have the emotional intelligence and capacity to know na you shouldn't have to follow such trends in order to feel like your love isn't enough. And when you can still keep building yourself, your future, well-being, and at the same time be with them, habang you are being your best verison. Kung yung tao mahal mo, hindi kayang tanggapin na may mga priorities ka before them, that is simply selfish and narcissistic of them to force or to want someone's world revolve around them. Kase why not support and instead stay hanggang kung saan na-fulfill mo na yung mga priorities?

Juliana :

ito yun!!

j :