@burned_notbroken: Comment “ready” if a burned out pursuer recently left you and you are desperate to connect with them, share your thoughts, and get them back. Or go to the link in my bio and look for the “how to do the work” guided journal. You’re not ready to reach out until you can genuinely recieve their response, accept where they are, and not have it cause a spiral into deeper anxiety or reset your activated state. #burnedoutpursuer #relationshipburnout #emotionalsafety #almostdivorced #breakuptiktok
I don't want to "not miss her" though. That sounds awful.
2026-09-03 20:02:35
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Hayley McDonnell :
I tend to be avoidant. I dont mean to, childhood trauma. but my wife asked for a trial separation last month. and last Friday she called and said she thinks we should stay separated. that we were unhealthy. i want to fix this with my entire being. I love my wife very much. im getting into different types of therapy. but how do I approach my wife. how long do I wait?
2026-09-12 06:23:05
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Brandon :
Yes me right now….
2026-09-03 19:40:42
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Mendo :
But what do you do when you have been focusing on yourself but there are times when you sit there alone and it’s quiet? A million thoughts running through your mind? What then? It’s hard to stay busy 24/7. Sometimes certain activities makes you think of them more too.
2026-09-04 21:20:05
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J Bird :
Ready
2026-09-04 00:31:18
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miqkayla_with_a_q :
I REEEAAALLY NEEDED TO HEAR THIS TODAY
2026-09-17 08:46:51
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New Life, New RV Adventure :
help!
2026-09-05 03:21:03
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Apple :
What if he has a new girlfriend already immediately after he dumped me
2026-09-03 22:53:24
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Keishiro222 :
how do I get rid of this anxious attachment
2026-09-06 15:29:39
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Danielle :
We were together for 3 years. He started talking to his coworker within a week of our breakup, and we stayed in intermittent contact for the last 3 months and were intimate, but a couple weeks ago I said we should stop because his feelings weren’t changing. He is still in a rebound situation. I’m assuming I should back off and let him reach out when/if he is ready?
2026-09-04 21:22:32
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Duyenieee :
My BOP said he misses me but he still wants the space … it has been so confusing but I’m trying to hold two truths at once
2026-09-06 01:02:35
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David :
So what’s the grounds when they’ve left but immediately jumped into it w someone new but it’s all emotional since it’s a “long distance” thing over the real physical thing
2026-09-04 00:29:38
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Michael :
Ready
2026-09-13 01:13:37
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Angus lives :
Ready
2026-09-12 21:14:59
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user655514 :
Ready
2026-09-04 17:12:17
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J🌀 :
Ready
2026-09-04 14:30:41
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j :
Ready
2026-09-03 21:30:10
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Scot Lorentzen :
ready
2026-09-03 22:44:58
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Brandon :
Ready
2026-09-03 19:42:42
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Ray Ray :
I really think he’s an avoidant cold short and I feel like I’m suffering I feel like he disregarded me after 22 years nearly 23 and I still have contact with him though but that’s only me doing the calling not him he don’t text or don’t ring
2026-09-19 22:07:46
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andrewmurray275 :
my wife has gone through this but we have 4 children and neither of us can afford to leave so we are in the same house how can I give her the space she needs to heal and I need time to heal myself as a withdrawer what things should I be doing to best respect her space and her time to heal
2026-09-18 08:06:52
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Stephanie Spencer♥️🇺🇸 :
Mine told me he doesn’t respond like he use to because he thinks I’ll think I got him back and won’t do the work I need to do.. we see eachother about once a week but that’s it
2026-09-18 01:35:43
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Stephanie Spencer♥️🇺🇸 :
Ready
2026-09-18 01:34:37
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GG :
Ready
2026-09-16 06:04:20
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Troy Huehn :
yes me right now
2026-09-03 19:53:43
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