@rude_advice: Would you LOSE IT if your child’s future stepmother dyed their hair without asking you? 😳 Being a stepparent can be an important role—but respect and boundaries still matter. Was this harmless, or did she completely overstep? @Ren 🍒 | Lifestyle Creator #Stepmom #Coparenting #BlendedFamily #ParentingTok #RudeAdvice

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anag7809
anag7809 :
This mom is upset that dad has moved on. And jealous that Scarlett acknowledges dad’s GF/ fiancée as a parent also. When you hear both sides, this mom literally shuts down anything she is asked of. Including putting the baby in a sport, “because it might affect her mental health”
2026-09-04 19:32:00
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tickey1978
tickey :
it was purple wash out conditioner
2026-09-04 11:42:59
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dino_makingtires
Dino_MakingTires :
disagree. fully disagree.....maybe the kids wanted the hair....
2026-09-04 07:37:56
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spookysiku
Siku :
You’re gonna feel really silly when you hear both sides
2026-09-04 14:43:57
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synteria626
Kate Jones :
I hate when people react to one side of the story. Do you not hear how she said "if youre smart"? If the daughter wanted to dye her hair ever, now that child will feel like her wants are dumb.
2026-09-04 13:16:01
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brandon.landrum
Brandon.Landrum :
“You need to speak with the mother” why? It's not the mother's hair
2026-09-04 07:06:28
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foresttfairyy23
foresttfairyy23 :
As a hairstylist, she just used a color for depositing conditioner, which will wash out in a few weeks, but I definitely agree with you this stuff apparently was in the wrong. You definitely need a mom’s permission no matter what.
2026-09-04 15:31:50
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slowahhcvt_7
Slowahhcvt_7 :
You have to start getting both parts before you pick a side 🤦🏾‍♂️
2026-09-04 18:33:39
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uzumaki_bee
Bee Uzumaki🍥 :
1. The father is also a PARENT. If he felt like it was okay why not trust his judgement. You trusted him enough to have a kid with him. 2. The “dye” was not due at all is was a colored conditioner that will come out after about a week or so. So her reaction saying her hair was bleached and ruined is not the truth. 3. The girlfriend is actually a FIANCÉ. The fact that she demoted her to girlfriend puts a lot of things in perspective. Last but not least 4. The child herself requested it because she was feeling left out and her FATHER decided there was a safe way they could include her. Co-parenting doesn’t mean you have to call the other parent every time it’s time to make a decision about the child. She should trust the father enough to make good decisions! She is very perturbed that the father has moved on and will find any reason to be angry. Because above all else she brought the drama to TikTok instead of SPEAKING TO THE FATHER!!!!
2026-09-04 16:44:50
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greatvibe85
Kelly🇨🇦 :
has anyone looked into this story 🤔 it was a conditioner that adds color and washes out after a few showers I'm 100% on board with not killing hair but again it was color that washes out.
2026-09-08 17:30:10
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dagurldede
Kristiann :
You should’ve gotten both sides before you made this video sir
2026-09-04 17:44:33
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lucasisg.o.a.t
Lucas 🇨🇦 :
If the kid likes it, that’s all that matters.
2026-09-04 15:21:31
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glb9109
GLB :
dude the only thing I have to say is just let the kid have dyed hair. I have red hair and my hair is perfectly fine and I've dyed it purple. I've bleached it too, it's fine. it's not the end of the world. she's still going to have the red hair. by the time she's almost a young adult pieces of her hair are going to turn white.
2026-09-11 01:16:45
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pondphuaddict2.0
PP@ddict🪷❤️‍🔥 :
y'all dudes haven't even listened to both sides of the story ..you listen to one and judge ..get your asses to go and mind your bussines
2026-09-04 07:15:26
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mintiecreamcake
MintieCreamCake :
That sir, is the WRONG take
2026-09-04 18:50:55
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nahhruhv
W :
I miss when people would try to find all the information before making a judgement.
2026-09-04 19:10:34
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blacklegtoddy
Black Leg Toddy :
Man she really didn’t tell the whole story lol
2026-09-04 12:58:39
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lowmaintenanceliberal1
lowmaintenanceliberal1 :
I'm team dad
2026-09-05 01:29:03
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nikkigamache21
nikkigamache21 :
you need to hear their side too. it was demi.
2026-09-04 16:49:04
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isabelle_james
Isabelle J :
I get it however it was just colored conditioner that will be washed out
2026-09-04 18:44:49
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megannotfox0
Megan Bedford :
Everyone needs to practice waiting for all information before jumping in with such strong opinions.
2026-09-06 02:57:51
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nikkifrosted
Nikki :
You’re gonna feel really silly when you see the dad/stepmom side of the story. As a mother.
2026-09-05 15:59:26
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southerncountrybb
southerncountrybossb :
First of all. The stepmother DIDNT dye anything. The FATHER did color conditioner. Find both sides first.
2026-09-04 13:06:11
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zoeeeeee176
Mum of 3 :
Nah your wrong on this one dude
2026-09-04 22:22:12
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dream__smith
Dream Smith :
yeah she needs to not do it, but also this mother is saying "I like YOUR hair so its mine not yours" you cant talk about respect in the same frames where the mom doesnt respect her child. respect needs to go all ways
2026-09-04 04:30:12
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