@secrentaccount._: I am disorganized attachment so I know what it’s like to be avoidant but I display a lot of anxious attachment traits as well so I’m not good in this area. #help #fyp #avoidant #avoidantattachmentstyle #fypシ
I healed my avoidant attachment style for the person i loved if anyone has a question drop it below.
2026-09-08 18:08:54
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ifiamiam :
They ghost you , it was too real and they got scared . Ik because I’m one yaaa
2026-09-06 01:07:19
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alex :
i like a lot of space and would come in and out his life every few months until he told me that he would like to spend more time w me so he waits patiently and i kinda lead the ambiguous relationship 😭 we see each other more frequently now and its comfortable! i think having a conversation about boundaries is good. if they’re not willing to listen to u though its not gonna work bae they dont deserve the love u have for them
2026-09-10 00:27:56
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XEVIILMAYCRY🩸👁️🗨️ :
If I fight for her is she brave enough to fight back🥲🫂
2026-09-08 23:12:20
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JANN :
If you actually love the avoidant - you’re not suffering- attachment is suffering. Love is understanding
2026-09-07 17:33:29
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Adamtoocorny :
Don't be with avoidants
2026-09-04 02:22:36
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lina ౨ৎ :
trying to figure out the same, lowkey wish i had someone to talk to about this
2026-09-05 01:19:46
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sarahhh :
avoidants do the little things that you wouldn’t consider substantial (watching stories quick, liking stories, maybe offering advice on some things that aren’t too emotionally involving) if you’ve got some specific questions i don’t mind helping figure it out
2026-09-08 01:27:43
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˚✧₊⁎ rogue <#3 :
Wait literally like he’s still matching me on things what
2026-09-08 20:58:41
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Shygirlsoserious :
They wouldn’t be with you if they didn’t like you
2026-09-08 04:03:04
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hellokitty :
They let you in slowly. There will be subtle things that’ll show that there trying but there avoidant self cannot let you in fully.
2026-09-08 06:24:16
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Michael Sembello :
Give them space, I know it is tough but you reach out and you make it worse. I have the same issue and I am giving it a two week cooling period.
2026-09-08 02:29:25
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blake :
I always wonder how much of these attachment styles are just the time? Before messaging created access to constant contact all day, what did the anxious attachment style look like?
2026-09-08 18:22:42
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kungfuthiagoo330 :
please tell me she loves me still bro
2026-09-08 01:25:33
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