Aj Saxsma
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k.corvis :
why is it "thats your mom" and never "thats your kid"
2026-09-04 12:10:53
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angie210rios :
I’ve mourned a living person already.
2026-09-04 15:57:50
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user5953837514664 :
My first thought was - he probably mourned the loss of his mother years before she was actually gone. I would argue that mourning the loss of a person but knowing they are still a choice is much harder than losing them to death.
2026-09-04 15:00:53
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Crystal.Divia🐧 :
maybe I've been neglected by my parents too much, because I had zero judgment on this fictional man from the beginning 😅
2026-09-04 03:22:34
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MonkMonkMike :
Believe me, you wont regret not showing up .
2026-09-04 11:40:14
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Shawn :
I immediately thought "what did she do?"
2026-09-04 03:24:01
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Luca :
i attended my fathers funeral last week. i visited him twice in the last few months of his life. this was after years of mostly no contact, due to His shitty behaviour. i showed up because my sibling needed me to, and everyone told me i would regret not going. i sat through a funeral where everyone said how beautiful & caring my father was, my father who is the reason i have cptsd & am physically disabled. i dont know if not going wouldve been better, but being there hurt a Lot.
2026-09-07 23:50:40
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GetGud :
Extistential Belief forms personhood
2026-09-08 15:13:34
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chronically_yours :
"That's your mom" I know right, and how awful that she's made me feel like this last action is the correct choice for me.
2026-09-04 13:26:07
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Voodoo Child 🇳🇬🇬🇧🇨🇦 :
I didn't speak to my father for more than a decade and hadn't laid eyes on him for more than two. Meaning that he'd never met his only grandchildren. He died. I arranged the burial. I did not attend it.
2026-09-07 22:32:17
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Deb :
I can’t stand it when people tell me how I’m gonna feel in the future… they should use those magical future telling powers to tell me the winning lottery numbers instead. 😂😂
2026-09-04 14:07:30
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sonyp :
he wont regret it. most likely he will find out all the horrible stuff his mother said about him in his absence and be so happy he didnt go.
2026-09-08 06:01:22
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April Young :
I have a very happy healthy relationship with my parents and I immediately thought "he's not obligated to go". I never went to my aunt's husband's funeral, I barely met the man, I barely know my aunt. I'm not participating in some masquerade of grieve for no reason. 🤷🏻♀️
2026-09-08 10:48:33
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JUSTICE FOR ALL :
It's better to be black sheep
2026-09-07 17:17:25
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F :
The first thing I thought was: if someone skips the funeral of their mum, there is a damn good reason behind it. Who in their right mind would assume, that the reason was malice?
2026-09-05 15:42:50
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MyieshaCancer_1980_ :
No, is a complete sentence
2026-09-05 22:52:48
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This Happy Life 🏳️🌈 :
I didn’t judge him at all. I was on his side from the beginning
2026-09-06 20:42:03
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ayla :
“showing up is treated as forgiveness” 100000%
2026-09-08 00:01:41
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allegedlyandrew :
People need to stop telling people how to deal with their families
2026-09-04 22:30:09
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Lee Belcher :
I was on his side from the very beginning never judged him at all
2026-09-04 07:39:31
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Jayme Canfield :
As someone that is estranged from my mom, I will not be attending her funeral whenever that happens. My family is the same. Showing up = forgiveness, but I haven’t talked to my mom in 12 years so…yeah wouldn’t feel regret not going.
2026-09-04 03:06:41
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eliza_with_a_E_and_z :
“She’s still your mother” but I was her child! I was still her child when she beat me! I was still her child when I was made to look after her other child! I was still her child when she used to starve me! I’m not her child anymore I haven’t been for 15 years she is not still my mum! When she does go I will not go to her funeral because you wouldn’t go to a strangers funeral so why should I?
2026-09-05 16:29:51
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Saturdayswarrior247 :
there are things a parent can do to break the bond of blood
2026-09-04 15:49:45
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Than_with_an :
People look at me like I’m evil when I say death or sickness doesn’t absolve wrong done to you
2026-09-06 15:09:58
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ImpertinentOwl :
Same, funerals are for the living. If the living dont wanna go then the living don't go 🤷♀️
2026-09-05 15:52:52
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