@asktheavoidant: 5 reasons you got discarded. You were with a ghost and you didn't know it. From a dismissive avoidant who spent a decade overcoming it. #dismissiveavoidant #avoidantattachment #avoidantdiscard #anxiousattachment #fearfulavoidant

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__nyra_
ItsNyra :
So if you guys are like this, why be in a relationship at all?
2026-09-04 11:39:11
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max.ruby._
max.ruby._ :
i get the point but...we do know when youve checked out, its why we start getting anxious
2026-09-04 16:51:17
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orzeszek_pistacjo
orzeszek_pistacjowy :
These vids are scary af if you actually had these experiences with someone
2026-09-04 21:35:43
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authenticvibrations
Cosmic Shaman & Founder VIKI :
I’m a FA but damn, DA sounds more brutal lmao
2026-09-04 05:25:31
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josuecorleone
Josue :
I kinda wanna hear hard truths that you had to realize when you wanted to heal
2026-09-04 04:23:01
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johanson732
johanson732 :
This is so triggering
2026-09-06 15:11:50
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sbrantn13
Seth :
She absolutely did all the same things and honestly I still hoped for the best for her. Now I just hope to find the actual real love I deserve
2026-09-05 02:57:19
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ski_mask777
SkiMask777 :
Should be illegal
2026-09-05 22:46:06
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will62419
YOLO Ivestments :
I use to be angry but I realized just being an avoidant is karma itself. No anger, no drama, no long text messages, just move on and find good vibes and peace!
2026-09-04 14:47:43
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peterrabbit36
peterrabbit36 :
this should be a play on broadway
2026-09-08 15:39:16
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grunkor55
Gregory Crawley :
What did it cost you for number 4?
2026-09-08 19:38:58
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saturnis.fbx
saturnis.fbx :
This is a nightmare all of it
2026-09-04 15:16:11
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thesweetandspicycorner
MissMakiko :
That’s abusive btw
2026-09-08 17:23:51
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ostareofficial
OSTARÈ :
That is correct.
2026-09-08 20:37:01
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swabrina_1
Noni ❤ :
Am curious,do all DAs operate this way? coz as a Fearful avoidant,I have realized we don't operate the same,just a little
2026-09-04 10:34:26
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rootedbyisy
Rootedbyisy :
This is painful to hear. I wish more DAs spoke about their patterns with compassion for the people who loved them and were hurt by them. Self-awareness means very little if it does not also create empathy for the pain you caused.
2026-09-04 05:20:07
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skeptikall79
Danny D :
my ex is an avoidant. I dealt with so much emotional abuse from her. never again.
2026-09-07 04:08:57
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missnaddybaby
missnaddybaby :
The acting is still triggering me
2026-09-05 01:16:54
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curlyhair_boybandlover
Ris :
Definitely sounds like my ex now
2026-09-04 21:37:13
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shazlin264
Sharon Hutchings :
My god this is what I’ve been goin throu for last 7 months, I new he had checked out, but he won’t leave our home so I can never get this closed
2026-09-04 13:30:46
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ohan_940
💙Ohana :
He said he wanted some days to think but months before was distant and different I panicked and broke up with him (he broke up with me and blocked me once so i wasnt ready to live the same thing). Days after i asked to talk and solve problems and he became a whole different person so cruel. And put all the blame on me for everything happened. After months in which i tried to talk explain i even took a flight to his city he just blocked me and acts like i never existed. Please stay away from those people are the worst
2026-09-04 10:22:18
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awp499
𝐉𝐚𝐳𝐳 :
nice...true and simple
2026-09-04 05:02:30
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