@nickvallentino: Bro 🤦🏻‍♂️ #religioustrauma #exchristian #deconstruction

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user1800906382327
user1800906382327 :
Family is strength praise God indeed!🔥🙌💥
2026-09-12 22:13:32
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user1221847660563
chow :
It’s ok to say that
2026-09-12 01:46:11
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mskimmyr3
MsKim :
When I utter the reply “Only God knows…” 😭🥴😬
2026-09-11 10:07:20
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selfless2selfyes
Kandice :
😂😂😂 I do the same thing. Then the reality hits 😏
2026-09-11 11:44:15
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slpbuffy
Christa :
I’ve started saying “Praise Dolly.” You’re welcome to borrow it ❤️
2026-09-04 05:12:19
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monster_crane
Monster_crane333 :
I wish I had ANY of my siblings on this side with me
2026-09-05 06:49:00
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gotrinigirl
🦋 𝕰𝖑𝖑𝖊 🦋 :
It was embedded in our psyche but we are now forever aware...
2026-09-11 23:30:37
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bmotheproducer
BMo :
Mine is when I catch myself saying "Lord" when I pray. I try to use other names instead, like "Divine Feminine" or "Jeff"
2026-09-04 10:45:24
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juliatygris
Julia Tygris :
But God doesnt deserve to be erased just because religious people misrepresent Him. The Creator of the universe is your greatest Friend and closest Partner and He is in each and every one of us. God gets mistreated too 💔
2026-09-04 05:57:00
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franklin.liranzo
Franklin Liranzo :
I say: wow mother earth is so beautiful, or nature is so healing, or thank the universe for this…
2026-09-09 15:43:19
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andie.michelle.b
andie.michelle.b :
I'm the only one in my family who deconstructed. my sister, parents and the rest of my family tell me I let the devil in and I will pay for it. thank you for sharing your videos! I still say dear lord in my head when im scared. the programming went deep
2026-09-08 19:50:59
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hii.ryyy5
Ry :
Catching it and laughing at it is healing. ❤️‍🩹
2026-09-04 04:43:49
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zcmama
Jen Jax :
I love this!! My brother was the pastor of the church our dad planted. We both got out. It’s so amazing to have your sibling to process it all with.
2026-09-06 17:49:49
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crystaloftwinstar
crystaloftwinstar :
you can break free from religion, and STILL believe in God and Love Him amd have a relationship with him. He's so different than what most religions teach. He's there and Loves you no matter what.
2026-09-07 13:30:37
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madmarthas
MarthaRockwell :
Whenever I’m flying in severe turbulence I do the same!
2026-09-05 01:11:48
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knottyandniche
Alia_JL 🍉 :
I say "praise be" or "under his eye" or "may the Lord open"
2026-09-04 13:03:02
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realrockwell
Therealrockwell :
I now say Geezus because TRAUMA
2026-09-04 04:41:29
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iamcrystaljae
Critically CrystalJae :
muscle memory
2026-09-05 01:39:22
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iamcrystalclear08
IAMCrystalClear :
I get it 💯
2026-09-04 14:03:26
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aprilaa31
April :
those habits run deep!
2026-09-04 16:02:35
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heykenziemackx
macken💤ie :
I would catch myself randomly praying for years after I left. its wild haha
2026-09-04 22:22:14
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the_cherry_bomb
🍒💣 :
De-programming can be tough. Glad y'all made it out!
2026-09-05 02:25:11
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onegorgeousmex
Gorgeous :
That’s wonderful that you have a sibling you can relate to. I’m the only one of my siblings who has stepped away from the church; my other two are still deeply devoted and involved. I still believe in Jesus and try to live according to His teachings, but I see myself as more of a follower of Christ than a religious person. For me, the trauma came from the church, not from Christ. As I’ve healed, I’ve begun questioning what I was taught and separating my relationship with Jesus from organized religion and the control I felt the church often exercised through its interpretation of the Bible.
2026-09-08 23:06:04
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kld972
Jen🦋 :
I kept saying stuff like that too. Now I say thank you Mother as in Mother Earth.
2026-09-04 20:00:18
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11gardengate11
garden gate :
I hate when I do thinks like that.
2026-09-04 19:00:59
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