@theestrangedheart: Replying to @auntmay64🇨🇦 An example of ‘armoring up’. #estrangement #curiosity #nocontact #theestrangedheartpodcast

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silkabelli
silkabelli :
They are showing their abusive, menacing and angry side. The very side that made their children go no contact.
2026-09-04 10:22:13
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christie.heals
Christie Hoffman :
Us estranged adult children love your content.. thank you… you’re doing the lords work. ❤️
2026-09-04 13:32:53
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bodyasaltar
Melanie North | Body As Altar :
This is important work. I completely understand why this person was triggered because it’s hard to look at the origin of your pain when you’ve passed some of it to your children. I had to eventually go no contact with my mom (after trying to be the family savior for too long) and it saved my relationship with my own kids because I was able to root out patterns within myself that could have resulted in estrangement by my children if I kept them up and doubled down on them. And ooohh boy does that hurt. But armor serves no one, where radical honesty (and self compassion) is tender heart work, but sooo worth it to have a healthy relationship with myself and my kids.
2026-09-05 22:54:14
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5323274f
5323274f :
When a parent shoves you verbally over and over and essentially says leave me alone the child will eventually comply with that.
2026-09-07 15:54:05
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holly.the.exhausted
holly.the.exhausted :
When people armour up, does the armour stop them from seeing the hurt their words or behaviour cause while they were Armoured Up? Like when this commenter called someone an old hag, were they unable to connect to the fact that that would be very hurtful? Or is the anger so strong they don’t care in the moment?
2026-09-04 16:36:02
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alinncita7
Alinn :
When someone's argument is "keep your opinions to yourself" you know what kind of person you are facing. They want you to align with their beliefs no matter what and that's why their kids aren't having it.
2026-09-04 11:52:33
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tink674
🐛Laura 🦋 :
I hope she can try to understand what you are trying to help her.💯
2026-09-04 21:39:46
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nanciruns
RunNanci💙 :
As a parent I had to look at why I was defensive. Upon looking at myself- I needed to address it
2026-09-04 17:14:56
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delano_ea
Delano Ea :
wow, I think this same lady just went for Doc too...
2026-09-05 13:55:51
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southernmawmaw3
Dana :
I listen to alot of these therapist and take everything, I mean Everything to heart ! My main Goal is to just Heal my relationship. not push her . not push me . But HEAL ♥️
2026-09-04 21:03:29
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777beth555
❤️Estranged and Healed❤️ :
Thank you so much! You addressed this so well. 💕
2026-09-04 20:19:04
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hayley.mcwilliam
Winifred & Colleen :
yea the response to "are you ok" even if the person who said that was being sarcastic, was so out there, like the response was extreme! personally attacking,you could feel/ see the rage in her response. the "are you ok" wasn't being nasty to her personally yet the response back was a nasty personal attack and really unnecessary.
2026-09-04 21:44:52
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southernmawmaw3
Dana :
my daughter may have me blocked. she has said ungodly things to me for years I love her ! I love her ! I just want a healthy relationship! We have to figure it out eventually people ♥️
2026-09-04 20:53:49
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whoa.melly
Melanie :
So much contempt and defensiveness. How can you even try to repair or genuinely connect with your children (or anyone) like this?
2026-09-04 14:53:43
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icantreachthetops
icantreachthetopshelf :
They deserve hate
2026-09-04 11:37:02
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thepottymouthguru
The Pottymouth Guru :
Isn’t it great when someone proves your point FOR you? Also, “keep your opinions to yourself…” is this their first time interneting? And you’re right, coming to YOUR corner of the internet and trying to silence you. That’s the truth there, the auto armour.
2026-09-05 20:19:04
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sarahehxw7a
sarahehxw7a :
❤️❤️❤️
2026-09-07 02:29:11
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