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Milan Menon :

Now it's far worse. In the past, the 60s, there was much more harmony.

user4925270524917 :

talk as though they never do to others come on la goes both ways

yaya :

Well i go to a public toilet and when they see me coming out, they don't want to use the cubicle.

attila :

whatever the majority do to the minority the minority supposed to smile abt it ? 😂😂😂 if minority hits back later it be called racist

Lex Sonostra :

The lift issue is so true!

MrMorningWood :

In any country Racism will often come from A MAJORITY race in that country. Thats n unfortunate nature of human being

<3liuyuning :

The grab stereotype is so rude omg

Serine✨ :

Many people say Chinese are most racist. I do agreed some are but not all. An individual dislikes of any other races have nothing to do with the whole group of people with the same ethnicity. I am a Singaporean Chinese, ask any of my Malay friends, they will tell you I am absolutely good with them. I ever work with a Malay boss for 10 years, selling Malay culture items. I do have Indian friends and a god brother who is Indian. I see nothing about us being in different races, I only see all people in regardless of whatever race or skin colours as all humans.

guit2361 :

In malaysia so racist

socratic :

I don't think racism exists we are well united many Chinese girls marry Tamil boys

nEnEk🤣Gam3R :

i get from gold shop. my husb took me for surprise bday present. he pass me his card and i can take what ever i want. i took 2k bracelet and the sales person kept telling me to ,'u can installment, this one heavy more than 1k and she kept repeating even after i said i not gonna pay installment, in the end i told sis i can pay all using my husb card(show her), im only paying installment for my 4room. In starhub outlet also the same this Philippines sales man kept telling me this plan expensive this one also expensive, my husb told him off why u kept telling my wife expensive2? bro if i cant afford i will not bring my wife here. he was shocked and he apologized. and my husband told him its rude for u to keep telling customers this and that expensive when the customer can see the price, its like u telling the customer they cant afford. And we were there waiting for our number to be called, we didn't hear him telling the chinese man before us about expensive. So it's an obvious stereotype.

ZuF Fey :

the younger generation now are better. Believe me. Education play a big part 👌

FiNamiAshiiro19 :

are you Malaysian?

aldhakaalistinai :

Likely a make up story

pewpewdai :

when I go office every morning my colleague will ask if I got bathe. I don't understand why I need to bathe when I sleep in aircon every night

Ocean Master (OceanMaster) :

My former colleague, a local brown man, was cleaning his car (top line continental) in his condo carpark. One of the resident asked him how much is it to clean his (entry level Korean) car!

TennisChamp :

lawrence fishbourne melayu..

udevilcannothide :

The way u behaved are the most important

AnaReza :

david ween :

Do not look at other race with a magnifying eye so you won’t misjudge them

Leroy :

The more prosperous a country becomes, the more you may find people complaining about every little thing. 😅 I can’t understand why some people like to use racism as a weapon. The staff simply said that the GrabFood pickup stand was on the other side. They never mentioned anything about race. It could simply have been one inexperienced staff member who made a mistake. That doesn’t mean the whole group or organisation is racist. Some people may feel unwell, uncomfortable, or have other personal reasons for choosing not to take the lift with others. It doesn’t necessarily have anything to do with racism. Please don’t use racism as a weapon to attack an entire country or group of people. Everyone’s experience is different, so I think we should look at each situation fairly instead of making generalisations. Try to stay positive and not assume the worst in every situation. Being more positive can make life much happier. 😊

annemarieclarke65 :

As a child I was often asked, “what race are you?” I got used to saying “human” with arms n legs like you.

A.Halim :

if we are a believer we must look beyond colours.....colour blind

bobbychong91 :

Abang totally agree with you👍

Douglas Tay Jing Hoc :

I do get Malay or Indian who do not want to take the lift with me so is it racism too but I feel for him abt the Grab delivery queue part but is it racism I doubt so I was prevented from entering Paragon carpark as my car has phv decal he kept saying grab the other lane I’m like dude I’m not even there to pick up anyone can’t I go to the mall to shop so stereotyping may not always be abt race sometimes being less sensitive n positive will make u feel better