@coach_bridgetb: Every last-minute schedule request is a test. The response — whether you accommodate, refuse, or negotiate — becomes the baseline for the next request. Which will come. Because the ask is the tactic, not the schedule. The right response is almost always: “I need to check my calendar. I’ll respond in writing by end of day.” That gives you time to think. That documents his lack of advance notice. That creates the paper trail. If you’re in the middle of a specific request right now and want a second set of eyes on how to respond — comment HELP and let’s book a session. #scheduleadjustment #laborday #highconflictcoparenting #custodycoach #breakingbadasscoaching