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Meg :
Girl if you’re not going leave him leave us all out of it 😅
2026-09-04 18:13:17
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Jess☆ :
Girl it’s not even just the fact he was disrespectful to you and your feelings, I’m sorry but it’s very likely he’s seeing another girl. The fact you’re 21 is exactly the reason people are telling you to leave him. There is no reason to waste your time on this man you’re so young you’ll forget about that man in 2 weeks I promise
2026-09-04 16:09:04
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brookie :
BECAUSE WE HAVE BEEN THROUGH IT!!! It’s in YOUR best interest to leave him. If you want your feelings validated ask chat gpt, you asked for tough love🫶🏼
2026-09-05 00:17:46
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faith :
Everyone’s warning you cause we’ve all been there !! Genuinely even if he’s exhausted and cranky, he’d be with you even just to sleep. You shouldn’t accept this because it will only get worse and/or he could be cheating. My man literally flew oceans to get to me.. after only knowing each other for like a month. A real, worthwhile man would never do this.
2026-09-04 14:21:52
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Jimena 🌟 :
People shouldn’t be mean! However, don’t waste you early 20s on a man like that. I did and I really wish I hadn’t.
2026-09-04 20:09:23
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lexi_zacek :
you gotta leave him girl it’s the only way
2026-09-04 14:16:40
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Lexi :
It’s not embarrassing or pathetic ❤️lots of girls go through relationships where they put up with diabolical BS. You’ll move on and find someone better but don’t listen to the people being outright mean 🙂↕️
2026-09-04 14:36:42
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𝕸𝖎𝖘𝖘𝖋𝖔𝖗𝖙𝖚𝖓𝖊007 :
You're young, your 20s are for having fun, building friendships, learning, exploring,etc. Anyone that doesn't appreciate you or your company doesn't deserve a seat at your table.
2026-09-04 22:42:11
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nini :
We accept the love we think we deserve
2026-09-04 14:19:40
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jen 🍉 :
i was also attached to my first relationship (late bloomer so like 20ish? maybe late 19) and trust it’s not worth holding on if you don’t see long term happiness !!! i was sad every other day bc i was never a priority… i was imagining us living together and being in the same situation and yeah i couldn’t
2026-09-04 18:17:07
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Christina :
She’s not leaving him move on yall
2026-09-04 17:37:58
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Samm :
I’m sorry people are being cruel but as a 31 year old who was just a 21 year old girl it doesn’t change you said it is your first relationship and you said it best it felt like a slap in the face because it was. I stayed for 10 years until I lost myself. Know your worth you are young and beautiful.
2026-09-04 14:33:43
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ceweedi :
Not saying to leave him but don’t let this be a pattern. You should never have to beg for someone’s attention, especially a romantic partner. As Cristina Yang said “He is very dreamy, but he is not the sun, you are.”
2026-09-04 17:44:00
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Kls7270 :
We’ve all been there. No reason to be mean though. The ridiculous stuff I put up with in my early 20s. You deserve better.
2026-09-04 23:07:32
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Emily :
I was long distance with my now husband for a few years. He never skipped an opportunity to see me. We started dating at 11&12. He never treated me that way. You’ll find a good one dear 🫶
2026-09-04 22:21:53
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dabread :
You’re not embarrassing or pathetic, but you are learning a lesson. A lesson so many of us has went through. It’s gonna be hard but not impossible. Once you realize you don’t have to put up with bs especially in a relationship you desire it’s gonna be great I promise. Just be kind to yourself too
2026-09-04 18:01:36
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Miss_what_now :
You deserve so much better. This is not it. I hope you see that. Said with love from a woman old enough to be your mom and who has experienced plenty of messed up relationships. ❤️❤️❤️
2026-09-04 21:35:01
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I don’t exist :
It’s gonna be okay mama, but I would def consider leaving him :( makes no sense he wouldn’t wanna see you after weeks apart. So sorry you’re going thru this girl 💔
2026-09-04 16:28:50
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gabriella_orme :
Get this: My long distance partner lives in the Netherlands (I live in the U.S.). I planned a trip to go to Germany for a week then be with him in the Netherlands for three weeks after. My 23rd birthday was during the time I was in Germany. He drove through the night 6 HOURS to be with me on my birthday because he couldn’t bare the fact that we were now only a 6 hour drive away compared to a 7 hour flight and an ocean away like usual. After spending the day with me, he drove another 6 hours back home the next morning so he could still go to work. We were 400 miles away compared to 4,000 and he didn’t want to wait 4 more days to see me… last year I was in a relationship where on my 22nd birthday I was in the hospital and my ex didn’t want to drive an hour to come see me. I had to drive to HIM the next day.
2026-09-04 16:51:18
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yana banana :
I know you probably have a lot of love for him and it’s hard, but you don’t want to wait until it’s too late to realize he’s not the one for you. No one is ever “too tired” for someone they really love
2026-09-04 14:21:30
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ally :
i was in a very similar situation. walk away when you can pls. your existence and presence in someone’s life is too precious for it to be treated like an afterthought. theres someone out there who would be sick at the thought of being so close and NOT spending that time with you, even if you guys weren’t doing anything at all
2026-09-04 18:24:58
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kalesannoying :
My bf when I was 21 would tell me he couldn’t say I love you bc he felt like he said it too much. So I decided to see how long it took for him to text or call me. We didn’t talk for 48 hours. Not one call not one text. I broke up with him bc it isn’t what anyone deserves. I think a lot of people just realize you are young and you shouldn’t be with someone who won’t put you first
2026-09-04 16:44:18
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Nuggiez :
Girl respectfully he is either cheating on you or doesn’t respect your presence. I’m not saying leave him but I would be ready too if I were you
2026-09-04 15:28:42
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Just A Dude :
genuinely wishing the best for you and people who keep posting relationship things and getting harsh backlash, the internet has no grasp of feelings or relationships and youre bound to hear the opposite of what you need to. be good to yourself and chase what you desire.
2026-09-04 15:47:41
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HonkyTonkHannah :
1 don’t vent about relationships to the internet, to strangers, even friends you shouldn’t vent to because they’ll just resent the guy and it makes uncomfortable for them to fake nice to someone they see as harmful to you. You have to learn to decide I’m going to see through this, or this is where I draw the line, then work it out or walk away. 2 it’s a learning experience for sure being your first relationship but when you are with someone who wants to be with you you will see how gross it was to be with someone you begged to see. As much as you were begging and pleaded and hurting to see him, someone out there will feel that deeply for you and it will be life changing love :)
2026-09-04 16:43:13
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