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Nina del Piccolo :
You’re not being too sensitive - (here come all the buzz words) your nervous system is triggered. You were constantly let down as a child and told your feelings don’t matter. I say that as a fellow September Virgo who is currently in therapy for it. I know EXACTLY how you feel. My partner held so much space for me to be moody on my birthday last year that I’m trusting them with it this year (a HUGE step for me).
2026-09-08 19:17:21
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Alex :
The Four Agreements book really changed my perspective. I also get into somatic practices to move in and through the thoughts and feelings that are magnified in the moment. I also just put people where they belong and not where I’d hope they’d be. It’s an a-ha, not an oh-no.
2026-09-05 18:54:51
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Jaxon Shaffer, LMFT :
First of all what day in sept?! I’m the 15th. Secondly, the resonance I have with this video (and currently in the heart ache of) is real. I typically go into shame and wonder what’s wrong with me, then realize I deserve kindness at least from my damn self. Then I wake up another day hoping that the world will receive me how I intend.. waiting for the next deep relationship. So long story short, it takes me a while too.
2026-09-07 23:50:55
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Jarilyn :
So I am a fellow Virgo. My birthday was 31 August and I’m telling you you need to feel all your emotions because I noticed that when I try to push my emotions away because I don’t wanna feel anything I hurt way longer than necessary you’re disappointed you’re sad. You have the right to feel disappointed and sad and cry about it. I know because I’m going through that myself life has kicked me in the gut and I feel it. Just know it’s OK it’s OK to be sad and it’s OK to feel disappointed and if you need a friend, I’m always here.
2026-09-04 20:54:11
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HotlipsStewie :
I think it’s human. ❤️Let yourself feel. I mean it’s different. If you were to say it’s like consuming your life and giving you anxiety or disturbing your life, but I think it’s OK to be disappointed.
2026-09-10 13:24:28
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Shell 🌈 🐾 :
Hi fellow Virgo! I am also a September Virgo. You are not being too sensitive. I am in an emotional spot myself. It seems every year in Sept I get into a funk as well. I keep Journaling, Gym, Taking a drive anywhere. Sending you hugs. You are not alone because I am going through it too
2026-09-09 03:34:24
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Michele :
I am a Capricorn. I have learned over the years to only keep the people that care and try in my life. That includes family. Just because they are family doesnt mean they get the right to betray and hurt me. I keep my circle small. I force myself to do things I enjoy. I am still learning and healing.
2026-09-08 03:12:37
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Julie, single, 60 🏳️🌈🇨🇦 :
Don’t have expectations and you won’t get hurt or disappointed
2026-09-07 17:01:18
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🌈🌸Wyldblossm🐌🏳️🌈 :
Trust that everything is happening for your higher good. See everything as gifts or lessons. When people disappoint me I know that those people are acting on behalf of themselves and not me. Don’t take it personally. Or what is it that is bothering me- maybe I need to look at myself and see what I need to work on. Oh and don’t have expectations.
2026-09-06 06:20:21
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🌈 KARRIE 🌈 :
Ohhh girl, I hear you on this! It took me a long time and a lot of effort to stop having high expectations going into every experience. I had to learn to stop "pre-playing" how I thought/hoped things would go. And I had to learn to accept people for who they were and how they showed up. I'm not saying don't hold boundaries but also don't hold space for people that don't show up. You don't have to always cut people out of your life, but don't chase and don't hold space. Sending big hugs!!!! 💛
2026-09-04 16:55:06
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Trish :
Unfortunately it's not just where it goes. I have a Leo heart and it gets crushed and disappointed a lot
2026-09-07 20:01:52
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tiffany.w.444 :
Okay so I’m a Libra but my moon and rising are both Virgo. I get you! Being 50 I can tell you that I’m just now seeing my own patterns.. people I choose to have in my life and why.. my feelings when it does not work out etc. there are a few things I wish I knew sooner. Wanting consistency and effort is not asking too much! That’s bare minimum for people that love each other. I as well need those things but I know now that if someone I care about is not able to give those things it’s an issue they have.. as a fellow overthinker we try to analyze the whys.. what’s wrong with them what’s wrong with me blah blah.. that’s the time you are talking about.. but to say what’s a timely manner.. that’s different for everyone .. it’s good to take the time.. I would encourage you to also look at the you too. Allow yourself to grow through the pain.. it’s a lesson and you are meant to learn something.. overthink that and not the pain of disappointment. That is what you owe yourself.. it’s unfortunate the universe will keep giving you the same lesson in a different body until you find that lesson.. you are responsible for you.. be a good person.. be the person you want in a another person .. i think that’s when the right person shows up! We disappoint ourselves wanting people to be who we want them to be! You go be who you want in a relationship and you will find her!! Chin up! Be great!! Keep loving hard❤️❤️❤️
2026-09-06 08:39:10
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Jelly Bean 🏳️🌈 🐼💛 :
Hey girl 💗 I’ve been thinking about what you said, and first I want you to know that it makes sense that you’re hurt. When someone important to us lets us down, it doesn’t just hurt because of what happened—it hurts because we cared. We invested, we trusted, and we had hopes for that person. The hardest part (especially for us Virgos 😂) is that our brains want to analyze everything. We replay conversations, we look for the moment we should have seen it coming, we try to understand why someone did what they did. But sometimes the closure we’re looking for isn’t in their explanation. Sometimes closure comes from accepting that they hurt us, and deciding we don’t want to carry that hurt into every new chapter. Give yourself permission to be angry. Anger is your heart saying “something mattered here.” But don’t let anger become a place you live. Feel it, learn from it, and then slowly release it. Something I’ve had to remind myself is: I can acknowledge that someone hurt me without allowing them to continue hurting me by taking up space in my mind.
2026-09-04 19:11:34
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Soncee Alicia :
im an aries with a small heart so i csnt help much. hang in there
2026-09-05 03:21:29
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Soncee Alicia :
❤️big feelings for a big heart
2026-09-05 03:20:57
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Joyce :
Your feelings are valid. Im a Taurus and bull headed as hell. when my family (kids) hurt me I shut down. I feel if someone loves me they wouldn't hurt me. But its just the opposite. But I have to forgive them in my head so I can move forward. I dont expect them to say sorry, Id be hurting forever if thats the case. Find it inside to let go of people that let you down. Leave door open just in case they decide to come back, but set boundaries so it doesnt happen again. Good luck.
2026-09-07 14:58:05
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