@safespacewithkay: People who overly perform niceness can become dangerous behind the scenes because they feel irrationally offended if you don’t perform niceness back to them
They want you to take the BAIT when you don’t then the mask comes off
2026-09-04 19:57:42
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Rave :
Yes, it’s essentially reciprocity. The more energy you put into something, the more you expect other ppl to put that same amount of energy in as well and everyone doesn’t put their energy into seeming “nice”.
2026-10-06 19:31:10
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isutaleh :
i was like this and realized i was actually crazy and insufferable lol
2026-09-04 17:38:22
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brittanyabaddie :
When you have discernment you can see right through that sht lol
2026-09-04 20:45:28
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BekomingKim :
And will have people looking at you crazy because you ain’t taking the bait
2026-09-04 17:35:18
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Jamie James :
basically ragebaiting and wanna reactiond
2026-09-04 21:57:40
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Jolene Reid :
Luckily, you can almost always tell when someone's 'niceness' has motive.
2026-09-04 19:59:34
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Isaiah💯 :
They know how to play nice for the big group Publix eye
2026-09-04 18:39:48
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∘°∘♡∘°∘ :
They’re sooo insufferable & it’s also very clockable
2026-09-04 19:34:17
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CoachMommy :
Its the person that EVERYONE likes, with the exception of the introvert that everyone thinks is weird lol. If the standoffish, OBSERVANT person doesnt like them...thats a red flag
2026-09-05 17:16:18
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CharlesCarter212 :
What if the people pleaser walks away from people who are unkind and doesn’t take it personal? Who are they then?
2026-09-04 19:42:34
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Joey :
Be kind. Not nice.
2026-09-04 21:23:40
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Amber :
And then they call themselves people pleasers 😭
2026-09-04 19:46:07
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plumroses8 :
Of course it’s not the loner or introvert because we mind our business, the one who told folks your business or stating mess is the one always in peoples face talking
2026-09-06 01:49:41
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MyUniverse2030 :
Wolves in sheep clothing
2026-09-04 19:47:33
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aroseisstillarose :
Beyonce and jay and the most diabolical people. I had to make an example
2026-09-05 13:36:03
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Skrilla :
I call them chameleons. You have to be very careful.
2026-09-05 06:42:32
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yourbabe_lilacheaven :
Off topic, what do you use to grow your hair?? it's beautiful!
2026-09-04 21:21:03
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:
I will k*ll anyone with kindness and if you’re still unkind in return, I’m going no contact
2026-09-04 20:28:34
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Vitamin E Gen ❌ :
Agreed! Do you know my MIL?
2026-09-04 20:00:09
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kingofawareness :
from what i understand
people pleasers come in the form of
1)the manipulator, inward, control based tend to please others to get a supply from them and gain power.
2)the protector, outward, preventive based tend to please others so the abuser isn't triggered & to obtain peace
both could become disregulated and demand it back, if that's thier desire. typically it's 1 tho who is more entitled to that dynamic.
2026-09-04 21:20:53
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khloe 🪞 :
Oh stitch incoming expeditiously
2026-09-04 19:29:59
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Siren Success :
Khloe Kardashian core
2026-09-04 22:20:30
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