@coach.ryan0: The sex didn’t disappear because you suddenly became undesirable. The relationship became real… and their defenses followed them into the bedroom. When intimacy requires vulnerability, the unhealed avoidant either turns sex into a disconnected chore… or stops showing up altogether. 🔥 #DismissiveAvoidant #AvoidantAttachment #EmotionalUnavailability #RelationshipTok #AttachmentStyles
Yep, started off amazing! Then went to no kissing, same position, no FP. Totally destroyed my confidence
2026-09-05 16:38:33
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Srbryant8 :
The beginning was dope, then he stopped being and went another route bc they’re manipulative
2026-09-06 21:34:56
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emma32111 :
The no eye contact ☹️I felt like a sex worker
2026-09-04 23:57:08
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Stacy DeLong :
all this then he just turned to porn and cut me out completely
2026-09-04 21:46:26
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Jessica :
I’m going on 3 months with no sex and im loosing it. I feel myself falling out of love. I’m tired of begging for attention and getting nothing
2026-09-05 00:37:54
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cottonsfamilyfarm :
Oh yeah remember that day !
2026-09-06 21:30:41
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Erika Frances :
Mine was the opposite. He would ignore me all day and expect sexually intimacy.
2026-09-05 03:31:11
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d0nnaJ :
5 months post discard after 6 years, we were having sex every night but now I realise it was almost robotic and I feel shame for not speaking out about it. I didn’t even know he had emotionally checked out with someone else.
2026-09-06 19:28:25
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#healinggrowingthriving :
Never has a man kissed me like my dismissive avoidant. I am so grateful I stepped back early when I noticed his patterns.
2026-09-06 20:24:09
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itstartswith1 :
narcissists do this
2026-09-04 18:35:24
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UpAndAdam :
Nah, it was always pretty bad
2026-09-06 17:44:33
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ElleRay :
TBH the sx is the only thing good in my relationship 😆. its more addicting than the trauma bond
2026-09-05 02:11:34
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mallik.803 :
When they lay there motionless staring into the distance like they’re wishing they were somewhere else or with someone else…
2026-09-04 23:51:25
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S. S. Serendipity :
He couldn’t keep his hands off me… Suddenly he saw it as a Demand, or a chore. Makes zero sense.
2026-09-04 23:06:22
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Cakey :
When my husband stopped having sex with me.. and I was begging for it, he called me a nymphomaniac. We had had sex only THREE times in a calendar year. 😵💫
2026-09-05 03:17:35
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Kathy G :
His sex was okay! he was to busy trying not to disappoint me while Disappointing me🤔
2026-09-04 22:35:40
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FOPhase :
23 years.
2026-09-06 01:42:31
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Gemsie :
You've just described my last relationship to a tee! The sex at the start was amazing, then it barely happened and when it did it felt mechanical as you described. I felt so unattractive and undesired. He was too hungry, too tired, too stressed to do it. Another excuse he used was that he said he was really self conscious about the way he looked, even though he didnt have an issue with this at the start! I left almost a month ago now, he drained my self confidence!
2026-09-04 18:45:10
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Blaire • LPN • 💉🩺 :
Are you telling my story lol 😂
2026-09-04 21:04:17
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Liv2day :
It disappears
2026-09-04 22:36:18
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aliciasyoga :
What if it remains passionate but you end up in a hidden situationship
2026-09-04 23:19:12
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Joy Smentowski :
How do you fix it if your husband is a DA?
2026-09-05 00:35:51
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Tina :
It’s non existent
2026-09-05 04:59:18
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emma :
Never wish this experience upon anyone
2026-09-05 19:08:01
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melissadougherty52 :
We’re together three years now, living together there is no sex at all. He tells me I can have it when I want it. Let me tell you how not sexy. It is to hear that. So I just stopped trying.
2026-09-04 23:55:32
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