@sidandlisten: Please tell me you understand this

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mainlymarlin
Marlin :
Adult friendship are hollow because you are not forced to experience life together like in school and college. As adults you have to make the effort to experience life together and sometimes it's not reciprocal.
2026-09-04 20:48:15
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cherryreacts16
Cherry Sakura :
I havent had a single person as an adult be interested in who I am or interested in getting to know me.... and Idk why
2026-09-04 21:42:42
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iluvaddisonmontgomery
iluvaddisonmontgomery :
I don’t have a single friend 😭
2026-09-05 03:06:02
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rockinrowdy7979
RED RIGGER🇨🇦 :
yes, you have articulated something I feel with my friend. I too live in a small town. lost my bestie a few years ago and have that very feeling with the girl I hang with now. So wierd,
2026-10-06 16:19:14
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apocalypseszn
apocalypseszn :
Her watching this video thinking you were clicking: 😳
2026-09-05 01:48:00
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footballm0mma
Football Mom :
It’s so weird. I’m 35. I feel 20. I’m an introvert but we also live in a little town so there’s nothing to do. There’s no way to find friends and introducing myself is too awkward
2026-09-04 21:19:49
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thisisnep
neptalylarios :
I completely understand this!!! I have very sweet kind friends but they don’t get my humor or I don’t get theirs. Conversations are surface level. There’s no love? I guess.
2026-10-05 22:31:56
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perla_spencer
perla_spencer :
I feel so lonely. I thought it was just me.
2026-09-04 23:31:40
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vikingchic
🩷birdie🩷 :
I call that "friend levels" some friends are someone you can exchange recipes and talk about hobbies with, some friends are the shop all day, lunch and laugh, other friends you could talk with for hours about deep things.
2026-09-04 23:11:43
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moxiekris1111
Jack'sNotSoHandyDaughter :
Like how do I encapsulate what makes me, me without pouring out the insane story of my life without sounding like a crazy over-sharer.
2026-09-04 22:06:50
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wms.linda
Linda Williams :
I relate. it is a very shallow friendship. Just cordial & no more.
2026-09-04 20:21:14
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mschunchi
Marian Sanchez :
What you guys need is to feel comfortable being weird around each other, like just being yourself without the anxiety of feeling judged
2026-09-04 21:26:11
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lmber0
lmber0 :
I think true friendships and connection are very very rare.
2026-09-04 22:09:40
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innainesamali
Minoshka :
Because kindness doesn’t always come from love, sometimes it’s just two nice people relationship.
2026-09-04 20:50:21
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officialsblessing
𒉭 Lucy 𒉭 :
You are so right about this. I love you, listening to your advices has helped my life improve on so many levels
2026-09-04 20:14:58
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mackenzieellyson
Mackenzie Ellyson :
It’s so hard to leave the formality stage too. Like I just wanna be fully comfy with each other, belly laughing.
2026-09-05 01:07:59
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jsharp1980
Jessica Sharp :
I missed my flight the other day. There was one other woman on my missed flight to Helena and we ended up switching flights to Bozeman and renting a car and driving to Helena together. I felt like I had known her for a long time and she said the same. We exchanged numbers. I hope I get to spend more time with her.
2026-09-04 21:19:47
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splendidly_b
BeKind :
you need to have a "stay up all night and bare your souls to each other" sleepover like when you were young with school friends
2026-09-08 01:22:00
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sandyssr4
SandySSR :
you are outgrowing her
2026-09-05 00:22:51
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sickeoacftv
... :
Best sentences on this platform: „I can fix that" and „Do not worry I found it"
2026-09-04 20:32:21
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lins_is_morr
✨Lady Linseed✨🍉 :
It’s harder to bond as you age because you’re so much more experienced and less inclined to accept any BS
2026-09-04 20:52:26
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annareesrush
annareesrush :
Wait yes I feel this so deeply
2026-09-05 18:36:21
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mj_xcx
mj :
Real friends are soulmates. Can’t force these things
2026-09-05 15:40:52
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arielkingofthehill
Ariel King🇨🇦 :
Girl take this as a compliment: you're pretty weird, like in a good way You have a good sense of humor. you name things, you're so keeping it real. You need to hang with your kind of weird girls where you can hang over a glass of tea dead laughing, bonding over the weirdness of life. I know the not-docking feeling.
2026-09-05 13:58:50
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lisettemac
LiseM :
Yep! I call that a “surface level” friendship, it’s not bad but there is no depth because there is no connection.
2026-09-05 05:43:14
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