And if the house goes up in value… she’s got a good deal out of just getting the original deposit back!
2026-09-05 11:14:26
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St58 :
He’s absolutely right and take the romance out of finance!
2026-09-05 19:04:39
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🅺🅲 🤍 :
Red flag for her 🚩
2026-09-05 14:22:57
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catw85 :
I had this agreement written into my first house. I would say its sensible and know others have done it too.
2026-09-05 06:12:20
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Bronagh NicA :
I don’t think it’s a red flag but as you say I think there should be a clause in there saying if you get married and have children it becomes a marital asset and goes to 50/50
2026-09-05 16:54:57
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ᛑᛗᛛ jeliipops ᛑᛗᛛ :
This is basically my partner and I. We’ve got equal deposits but I’m being gifted 20k to top it up, so I want that protected just incase we split (not likely but you never know.) I think we’re getting a declaration of trust drawn up.
2026-09-05 19:30:09
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jimbob2014 :
putting that much down deposit damn right I don't blame him
2026-09-05 06:41:45
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Tats Amazon Books :
Not only that people who have a house and meet someone new, got to be careful nowadays so many just after financial gains today 👍
2026-09-05 07:03:43
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Bethbeth :
everyone should do this. i didn't and got royally screwed over by someone i trusted for 14 years. always protect yourself
2026-09-05 15:55:37
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Matt | travels & living life :
100% green flag
2026-09-05 11:52:31
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isabella whatever :
i agree! this is exactly how my boyfriend and i are thinking about buying and it’s just sensible
2026-09-05 06:10:33
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user386047925 :
Sounds like she’s the red flag here
2026-09-05 16:55:42
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Linzi 🏳️🌈🤍📚📖 :
This is exactly what me and my partner did, it seemed the fairest and most sensible approach. When we signed the document the lawyers said when we get married it would be null in any divorce proceeding
2026-09-05 06:47:13
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Floobylooly :
It’s financially responsible. If he has that much more as a deposit, technically he would own more of the house. They wouldn’t be getting the house they’re getting without his contribution. Everything else is divided equally. It’s very much a green flag. He should get back his original investment if the worst happens. The point is, is can happen to anyone, so why not be protected?
2026-09-05 08:38:30
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emarfleet :
I have a deed of trust with my partner - I was under the impression from our solicitors that if we got married the declaration of trust would still be in place and we wouldn’t need a prenup?!
2026-09-06 19:30:20
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Splat :
If she doesn't like it he can reduce his investment to match hers🤷♀️
2026-09-05 18:05:29
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Jk346!i :
I bought my house before I was married and my then fiancé signed away any interest in the property. He didn’t care about the money at all. Bing reasonable and rational about money makes all the difference in successful relationships.
2026-09-05 16:30:14
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Mambo :
Green flag
2026-09-05 09:52:46
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Steph | Fragrance & Lifestyle✨ :
The bf is right.
2026-09-06 19:55:53
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