abbyeckel
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PinkLady :
It's not women's job to mediate someone else's feelings. These are grown men
2026-09-04 23:19:30
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Loren - Disney Travel & Beyond :
I am laying here shaking from a big blow up simply because I’ve tried to be heard in so many ways. He refuses to hear me. I can only remain stoic so long until it eats at me. And knowing he’d rather protect his ego than care about his wife’s pain kills me. I know he isn’t going to change. We’ve done this dance so much. He sees my screaming to be heard as an act instead of a plea. But I’m stuck. No career to leave and no skills to get a career. I have kids and feel lost. Doesn’t help I have zero friends since I left work to be a SAHM. Why are they so heartless
2026-09-05 02:59:39
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That🪷Girl :
So many couples therapists tried telling me this was the solution with my abusive cheating ex husband. The amount of years I thought if I showed up perfectly he would somehow change.
2026-09-04 23:11:15
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Amy :
I do believe there is a way to communicate where you’re not mean. Outside of that, however, their reaction is not your responsibility
2026-09-05 01:07:02
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greenbanky :
He's always the issue. If he cared, he'd do
2026-09-04 23:56:56
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P.A.W. :
Ahhh the dreaded gottman method: 🙄 Soft Launch. I’ve tried handing him concerns wrapped in pillows… he’s still defensive Now I’m just blunt as hell & brace … let him get defensive then continue on 😂
2026-09-05 01:43:20
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thrivingwithhannah :
Literally if I have to deliver every fkn message in cotton wool, I’m out
2026-09-05 08:57:45
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infoseeker :
Exactly it all depends on your reaction. if you tell him to do something and he says, okay. but you expected him to jump and do it right now. then, you just made yourself mad. let him do what he has to do. then, after the fact, you can tell him what happened. but when you're assuming he's not gonna do it, then you're treating him like a child.
2026-09-05 13:32:58
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Brown'schoice445 :
Thank you I get sick of these people trying to make money off of other people’s pain
2026-09-05 18:16:42
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ann :
I spent so much of my marriage trying to work out how to convince my ex to listen to my point of view. At the time it never really occurred to me how messed up that was.
2026-09-05 03:54:07
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username12ab21 :
OMG. That is what I go through. This man has aged me! I dream of a life without him; but not possible right now… 😫
2026-09-05 02:34:05
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ErinSingleLife :
in the meantime I am absolutely guilty of this so my divorce is easy and cheap
2026-09-05 08:36:04
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nona :
Men’s fragile egos will kill us
2026-09-04 23:26:06
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Bobby :
Weaponized anxiety
2026-09-04 23:39:08
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General Zod :
learn to appreciate him
2026-09-05 11:29:25
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