Honestly, Dray with all due respect, I think mature women often have a different mindset. I call it taking care of yourself, not trying to look fake.
I’ve done my own nails since I was 18, and it’s part of my self-care. Some women do lashes too—if done naturally, why not?
And yes, men DO notice. My partner always notices when I change my nail color and compliments them. So I don’t agree that guys don’t care. They notice when a woman takes care of herself.
If it becomes excessive or too fake, that’s a different story.
2026-09-05 01:41:00
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sylvia :
bc of a system that men has designed. psychologically people are more inclined to respect people that they deem as attractive. (the halo effect) why do you cut your hair, trim your nails, strive to wear nice clothes? to keep up your appearance. most people do it in some sort of way. it’s not a difficult concept to grasp.
2026-09-05 01:21:56
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Bunny Daly :
Look better, feel better. Nothing wrong with me!!!
2026-09-05 03:08:58
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PettypettyPrincess :
I have a simple question, when you buy trucks, who is that for? Because I see a zillion of them and only 5% are hauling anything
2026-09-05 01:45:48
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GenXtrovert :
You weren’t simply asking.
2026-09-05 00:11:38
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Melissa Reads For Fun! 📚 :
What about ppl always getting tattoos? Why don’t you question them? Or your pierced ears? Who did you pierce them for? Because you LIKED it….??
2026-09-05 01:06:59
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ʚAngelɞ :
It would be like you getting your ears pierced. Having them not pierced is fine but you like them better pierced. It’s call a ✨preference✨ things that you prefer to other things. I didn’t assume you were unhappy with yourself without earrings, should I?
2026-09-05 00:05:50
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M :
Sir, nothing is wrong. For the girlies …It’s called ✨ self care ✨ some of us do self care by taking care of our skin, hair , nails… etc. some are minimalist and that’s ok!
2026-09-05 00:26:38
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Everything was Magenta :
Why do you assume there is something wrong with us? That's like asking what's wrong with steak bc you want to add au poivre to it. People are happy with steak but sometimes they want to add au poivre or compound butter or a blue cheese cap or lobster. You don't go table to table asking what's wrong with them for adding to their steak do you?
2026-09-05 01:07:31
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FancyJenn 💅🍉🖤 :
What is that earring for?
2026-09-05 01:31:33
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anonymous179876 :
Nothing is wrong with us. Personally, I like to switch up my look because it's FUN. Life isn't that serious dude, relax.
2026-09-05 03:14:35
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Ephie Lynn :
many women in prison go through great lengths to create their own makeup from commissary items, food & paper products because of strict bans & limited access to actual makeup & there are no men really to 'impress'. many women do this because it's fun, a hobby, etc. it can be a form of creativity and self expression. just like when people get ear piercings or tattoos. because we like it
2026-09-05 00:21:41
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Sincerely Sara Lynn :
Why does it bother you so much?
2026-09-05 03:08:56
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💖ChristinaA🇨🇦🎵🎶 :
My hair is natural. no eyelashes. get my nails done but they are mine. I am happy with me 🥰 I am a 64yr old lady. I love tattoos as well. if a man likes it okay if not i am okay with that.
2026-09-05 00:04:51
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Richard P686 :
I think it's for other women. Not to attract them, but to compete with them.
2026-09-04 23:35:34
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Ansley Beth :
So spending money on nails, hair eyelashes, etc. would be fine if it was to please men, but since it’s for ourselves it’s not fine? Interesting.
2026-09-05 02:34:08
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Angie-keeps-learning81 :
It’s self care, and it can help our mental health. Because not caring about ourselves can lead to depression. Just let women be happy and do what they want.
2026-09-05 02:55:47
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Wizzywiz :
Why do you need to adorn your ears or have hair on your face in a specific way?
2026-09-05 02:31:09
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Raine🖤 :
And to say that nobody cares, that no men like it, it’s just a blatant lie. I don’t think you understand how much men pay to keep their girlfriend’s and wives nails done, because it’s what the man prefers on their significant other. Why do you feel like you think for all men?
2026-09-05 02:01:55
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dino1987 :
It’s “ couldn’t care less “
2026-09-05 01:32:32
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