@chroniclesofaflwoman: Please give me your honest answers in the comments 🙏 I hope to God this question doesn’t come across as offensive or weird, but until all children are equally safe and real change happens I feel like these talks are so important. #dodclub #LifeAdvice #friendship #respect #storytime
Have a cookout and invite their families. So they can get to know and see where their kids will be. People get along better when food is involved
2026-09-04 23:59:43
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Hazel De’Von :
As a mom of a black 13 year old boy who goes to a predominantly white school, I wouldn’t give a damn about a cook out invite. I’d appreciate you just coming to me and voicing exactly this concern & asking me what you can do to make me comfortable enough to trust you with my child
2026-09-05 01:46:01
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The Goode Watchman! :
You good after they have a conversation with you... Keep cussing, if not they not gonna trust you... 💯
2026-09-05 02:01:37
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Liddy :
I’m so GLAD somebody understands this ❤️
2026-09-05 00:22:44
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StLStarr :
Group activity with the parents & children so you can get to know each other. Honestly in these times you have to be hesitant to let your children go anywhere with anyone.
2026-09-05 00:34:45
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Proliphic Beings :
switch it up and ask if your child can come over their house. Give them the control of the environment.
2026-09-05 14:35:35
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MsDreday :
Be yourself you seem so genuine! Invite them over and invite their Moms as well. It’s always nice to get to know your kids friends parents. 🥰
2026-09-05 01:41:04
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Delena Schaefer :
invite the mommas over too
2026-09-05 15:42:36
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ikeokereke292 :
If you tell me that you voted twice for Obama and never voted for you know who, you are good with me 😂.
2026-09-05 13:48:28
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BigOhhNo :
Also let your child visit their house or neutral places like the park .
2026-09-04 23:54:40
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Sha Barbour :
You scored 10 points for asking for advice and acknowledging the concern that black parents have. We gonna talk about this and we gonna let our kids play and we will get to know one another as well. But you may have be open to going to their home first. We funny like that, but we good people too. Good luck Friend
2026-09-05 01:49:23
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Hey_Babe :
When I say the aunties around here love you but how about do a hangout day with the parents and children if possible
2026-09-05 01:22:23
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KennyLee :
just be yourself and be honest. Real recognize real
2026-09-05 01:53:45
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BigOhhNo :
Gotta give them time . Let them see your content though . Instant friends!
2026-09-04 23:53:32
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T-Bone H :
Just always be your authentic self and be as open as you are here on the tt and they love ya❣️
2026-09-04 23:51:03
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Carla E. (Nop) :
I wasn't going to comment but I don't see my idea so here goes. "Hi! My son has been asking me when he can hang out with your son. Is there a day when we can come over? I'll spring for pizza!" When they see you are genuinely respectful and comfortable in black spaces, it could help to alleviate their completely reasonable anxiety.
2026-09-05 00:53:17
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Wild Azalea :
invite mama to come too or go to the park for a first play date. my doors are open to all the kids mine hang out with, black, white, Hispanic it doesn't matter those kids are my kids when they are here.
2026-09-05 01:35:01
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Stud_daddi001 :
So off top they gonna look at u crazy its sad to say u just gotta show um your actions and make um feel comfortable and welcome eventually they will see dat u not dat "white person" they thought u were. Its gonna take time tho
2026-09-04 23:58:09
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Felicia :
Supervised Playdates....make it a party about anything...Spiderman's bday, Transformers something,
2026-09-05 01:38:11
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queenmoe_scorpio :
You can actually show them this video cause you seem very sincere and I will trust my black kid at your house just by your video
2026-09-06 17:27:11
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The Goddess's Quantum Path :
I just cried through the whole video. Just know you are genuine and all will fall in place. Definitely invite the whole family over for a co-cook out and cook, vibe and chat. They will get to know you and eat. That’s how we connect. ❤️😌
2026-09-05 17:47:28
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🌹Lady OH🍄🍄🟫 :
I believe Nolan wells grow up with his friends too. His mama went to school with their moms too. And we see what happened. So bc if this. I’m on the fence! It’s not like this and every case. But I have one time of being a mom to my son. Not taking chances. He’s 12
2026-09-05 14:13:43
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ShaundaRobi :
look at you BEING the change we want to see in this world. good luck with this situation!💜💜
2026-09-05 15:11:36
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fun_sized_chica :
I thought I was going to be able to provide an answer when you said parents of black kids. I was like oh, that's me. I'm Hispanic and he is mixed. But I kind of feel like Hispanic and Black folks are raised similarly. We don't trust many people. Just speak to them and over time they'll decide if you're good or naw.
2026-09-04 23:52:42
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sandratabron3 :
As a black parent I would like your child to come to my house first to check your child out. Is he respectful what he's like with my child first
2026-09-05 20:29:48
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