@kattheunpackologist: You can be fully grown and still feel seventeen the second you walk back into your family’s house. Families don’t just remember you. They remember the role they gave you. #FamilyDynamics #WomenOver40 #GenXWomen #MidlifeWomen #FamilyRoles

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roxxyy_mmm
user8324928359148 :
I don’t go home anymore, haven’t in almost 10 years
2026-09-05 00:36:34
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farmerbrowng.i.r.l
farmerbrownGIRL :
I no longer participate in traditions with family. I don’t have the capacity to digress for one day when I’ve been evolving daily. They need to catch up 😏
2026-09-05 03:07:15
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kris.ty41
Kristin & Ty :
I love how my mom keeps bringing up what I did as a teen concerning my daughter who is 19. I’m 41.
2026-09-05 02:31:07
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blythe.ghoul
Blythe 🍉 :
We were staying at my father's while hurricane damage to our house was being repaired. I subconsciously started walking this specific way I used to, to move silently through the house. I ended up with a stress fracture in a boot within a wk. That physical reminder was needed to give myself grace for teenage me showing up so furiously, my body remembers things that my brain hides from me
2026-09-05 11:56:36
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lissa0393
lissa0393 :
As I sit in my hometown that I moved away from in 1997. WOW. Spot on.
2026-09-05 05:23:43
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specialk7796
SpecialK7796 :
BUT as I leave i remembered why i left there in the first place and a smile comes over my face and im happy again. 😁
2026-09-05 00:47:42
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mauraurbana
Mauraurbana :
And that’s exactly why I cussed everyone out before I left for college. And now the 17yo is gone. 🤣
2026-09-05 18:50:16
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joesy1164
Joesy :
I really resonate with this. That Version of me is gone. I'm tired of being what people expect me to be. 🥰
2026-09-17 22:56:25
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aikosinterludee
Aikos Interlude 💗 :
Invited my family to my college graduation , my sisters fought me the day after
2026-09-06 18:03:28
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be3be33be
be3be33be :
Thank you for this. It’s a good reminder to take stock and address our awareness of historical place and current place. I appreciate your verbalizing how to process this
2026-09-05 02:05:20
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tornadotaco4
TornadoTaco :
Ive done so much work on myself…and they still expect the old people-pleasing version ..
2026-09-05 15:47:35
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subtlevelvettheory
You :
This is exactly why I do not go around family at all, I don’t even mess with them💯
2026-09-05 15:20:54
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superwoman10007
HiiiiiiiFelicia🌟💞⚡️ :
PERIOD‼️‼️
2026-09-05 06:31:57
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blaklibra
BlakLibra :
I don’t visit my hometown nothing good there lots of toxicity. No thanks .
2026-09-05 03:24:06
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addy_patty.momlife
Addy :
Yup! It is exhausting walking into a parents home with emotionally immature parents. I just don’t even do it anymore. I’m almost a 50 year old woman and I don’t allow ppl to yell at me or explode on me and I’m certainly not allowing my Mom, Dad or siblings to not respect healthy boundaries
2026-09-06 20:01:28
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all_directions_agency
Sandra Worthing Alves :
You’re great! Ty I needed this
2026-09-05 08:52:20
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lisagilroy4
lisagilroy4 :
Wow! This is deep
2026-09-05 03:27:26
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themindsetdisruptor
MJP-The Mindset Disruptor :
yes
2026-09-05 00:40:20
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livgrace247
Gracie liv :
Damn matrix
2026-09-05 02:34:19
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greenjeenz
Honuka :
I don’t go back. There is nothing there for me.
2026-09-05 17:59:53
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redblox.613
CG :
I don’t go home anymore
2026-09-05 16:00:56
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janmetra
JANMETRA :
girlll... i was just thinking this as I am preparing to go home in the morning ...
2026-09-05 03:18:24
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theafterglowstudios
Afterglow Studio :
Ohhhhhhhh I hear and feel this so hard
2026-09-05 04:20:58
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saundysaurus
Saundy :
How far away is far enough away? because I want to move back home but I dont want to move back to my old dynamic.
2026-09-05 01:24:45
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unknown.layzia
Layzia💘! :
No fr I act like a teen around my mom house but when I leave I act like the adult I am age 22
2026-09-06 12:27:42
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