Yeah we should stop excusing this behaviour. I see avoidants commenting on posts like these like it's a flex. It ain't. Its abusive and disrespectful. They need therapy.
2026-09-05 09:09:17
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Your Trauma and Abuse Coach :
They do whatever they can to push you away and then you get pushed away and it's done for life.
2026-09-05 04:07:21
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Rin ִֶָ࣪☾. :
Thank you that does explain a lot.
2026-09-05 03:53:17
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ed_nut25 :
And nope this is not a sign for you to excuse his/her bad behavior.
2026-09-05 12:20:15
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Aixa :
I had my last conversation with my FA ex, during which he distorted the entire relationship, twisting it around, even being cruel, and telling me that he thinks he’ll never speak to me again. I never imagined he could be like that...
I said goodbye by telling him that I hope he’s happy and that he’s loved as much as I loved him (even that offended him!!!)
I AM DONE.
2026-09-05 09:58:54
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life_in_the_wilds :
Unfortunately my nervous system didn’t cope
2026-09-05 12:14:44
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maeiouxyzz :
Yall need to understand the difference between being an avoidant and being an asshole who also avoids you.
2026-09-05 11:44:56
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𝐒𝐭𝐫𝐚𝐢𝐟_𝐕𝐞𝐫𝐠𝐢𝐥⚫♠☠️ :
He told his cousin when introducing us to each other that I was the most important person in his life...I guess I never really understood. 😫
2026-09-05 10:35:31
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🪬Presmi🪬 :
I needed help. I call him. He told me he will come after work. He did. He resolved the issue. We had a good time until morning. He left. No sign from him for next week. I send morning text every day. Left in seen. Finally he answer after exactly one week. It's a record.
2026-09-05 11:55:42
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Angel :
Crikey he must have been in awe of me 🤣🤣
2026-09-05 11:48:17
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ProfessionalPapaya :
Teach me your ways. I’m about done with all this…
2026-09-05 11:42:14
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Charlie boo :
Well it’s his loss not mine!
2026-09-05 09:22:23
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BENJI 🇬🇭 ♊️ :
correct ✅️
2026-09-05 09:21:22
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Kupek :
Okay ig i will take that
2026-09-05 12:06:42
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Nafsika Manti :
Beautiful
2026-09-05 09:00:00
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car person 🏎️ - Maria :
What if im the avoidant tho idk I doubt it but who knows
2026-09-05 06:57:45
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abena blessed UK 🇬🇧 :
You said absolutely rightly said💯
2026-09-05 12:31:16
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sosky 🇨🇦 :
just leave too much work to try to change them
2026-09-05 14:01:33
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celestine.star.8 :
Wow, this is an enlightening perspective.
2026-09-05 14:14:45
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