@confidentlyuna: Life lessons. Every man has it in him to heal and grow in his own time… but not every man has it in him to heal and grow in time for YOURS. Read that again. There are ways to show up that are only possible when you’re a fully capable human, not a cardboard cut-out of one. I say that with love. The irony is that these types of men DO move on quick. He’s a chameleon… skilled at looking like whoever he needs to be. At first he looked real, didn’t he? That’s how he got you. But the colours you saw on him were the reflection of yours. Of course he blended into your life with ease. That’s how insecure men cosplay capable. Stop. Looking. Backwards. This is about HIS identity, not yours. From your side, nothing has changed. You still need emotional availability, openness, kindness… and you’ll get it. Just not from HIM. Not every woman weighs the same. Your needs are not hers, and vice versa💡 #lifelessons #lifelesson life lesson life lessons life lessons that hit hard
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Saturday 05 September 2026 09:01:42 GMT
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Your Favourite Cousin :
Life lessons. Every man has it in him to heal and grow in his own time… but not every man has it in him to heal and grow in time for YOURS. Read that again. There are ways to show up that are only possible when you’re a fully capable human, not a cardboard cut-out of one. I say that with love.
2026-09-05 09:02:31
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VD :
You can't love a man who hates to love
2026-09-05 21:03:45
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lea 🐈⬛ :
and he'll always come back bc he knows you're everything he needs but you must stay strong queens!
2026-09-05 16:38:18
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sofiavezzoni :
I woke up twice today🙏
2026-09-05 11:40:13
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Julia :
“If he wanted to, he would”, no!! If he could, he might!!!! What do you want!!!
2026-09-05 16:20:17
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𝕮𝖍𝖗𝖎𝖘 :
іt fееlѕ іllеgаl tօ кnօԝ аbοut Rаеlіtү Ս Νеvеr Chοѕе bу Ԝаdе
2026-09-06 03:23:45
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energybyamber :
YES. I BEEN SAYING THIS FOR TIMEEEEE. LOVE does not = ANYTHING. Literally.
2026-09-06 03:47:25
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sometimes he wants to and still doesn’t and that’s actually worse and even more lame than just being a loser who doesn’t want to and never acts like he will
2026-09-06 01:20:09
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BigMooEnergy :
I needed this to reassure my choice, thank you queen x
2026-09-05 09:29:51
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leelee :
“at one point you were her. how did it go for you?”
2026-09-05 22:37:49
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explorer :
also no, you can’t heal him 😁
2026-09-06 14:08:54
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ken :3 :
My biggest issue right now because i know he treated me perfect in the beginning and i can’t help but think maybe i caused him to act the way he did in the end and now the next girl is going to get the treatment i deserved💔💔💔
2026-09-06 02:20:51
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ivana :
why would you be with someone who hates himself his father and his mama tho? 😭
2026-09-05 15:13:18
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user2249882436108 :
Verbatim btw
2026-09-05 16:39:05
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nihaoo :
“The colors u saw are a reflection of yours “🥹 ugh
2026-09-06 01:32:48
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Lillie :
U can just punch me next time
2026-09-06 02:22:43
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Icyaard :
Eyes opener
2026-09-06 04:04:20
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Eliquent :
if you're going to live in my walls, you should at least help with rent 🤨
2026-09-05 14:20:13
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bella 🪩 :
In my case he doesn’t hate his mother but since he is slowly becoming his dad, he wanted someone that would go through the same things as his mom and I’M NOT THAT
2026-09-06 10:37:19
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walmartmeganfox :
learned the hard way but glad i’m out of that mess forever ❤️
2026-09-05 15:37:11
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꧁𐌀𝒄𝒆(𝕵ᴇᴅɪ'ꜱ ᴠᴇʀꜱɪᴏɴ)𓆃 :
I genuinely believe I won't feel peace unless I hear of their seperation
2026-09-05 16:45:30
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em :
You were her is way too real
2026-09-05 20:47:16
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Wandzz :
thank you I needed this. just finished bawling my eyes out cos his new gf posted pics of him. but I need to remind myself he was so depressed in our relationship and I was miserable. I tried so hard to help him and he did not want to try
2026-09-06 01:09:10
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lisa lionheart :
Make sure you’re not learning another woman’s already learned lesson ladies!
2026-09-05 14:57:07
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