@thehealingcleric: Some of the most brutal lies don’t sound cruel when they’re said. They sound like excuses, confusion, and promises of “maybe someday.” Don’t get stuck waiting for someone who keeps giving you reasons instead of a relationship. #Avoidant #DismissiveAvoidant #AvoidantAttachment #BreakupHealing #NoContact
he said all that to me. i tried to be friends w him but he kept doing more and more things to hurt me. So i had to do what was best for me and i had to fully cut him out of my life! He sees me at work but i do no see him because i refuse to look at him or talk to him and be dragged back into his bs. He is a stranger because he is and will never be the man he proclaimed to be.
2026-09-09 01:43:31
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meaghenrenee1990 :
And next thing you know they’re immediately with someone else.
2026-09-05 19:53:50
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Xtal6872 :
Don’t forget, “you deserve better”.
2026-09-05 20:35:49
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njpgq11 :
I was given - “I’m mentally not doing well”
2026-09-07 22:05:59
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KulturedThreads :
Then two weeks later “ I meet someone and I want to pursue this so you have to leave me alone because I want to respect him”. So much for needing time to heal 🤡 I’m the clown btw
2026-09-05 16:22:11
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Wesse :
"it's not you, it's me" is not a lie 🤷🏻♂️
2026-09-06 13:34:12
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John Smith :
10 outta 10 😞
2026-09-08 17:07:11
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M_Sko :
8 of these from one discard conversation 😢
2026-09-07 01:38:49
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Dimos :
Wtf the exact words she told me and we. We’re together for 1.5 years and after we got engaged it came out 🥺
2026-09-06 19:25:45
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Louise Bradbury :
“Just give me time”
2026-09-07 15:55:22
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Kristin faith :
6 of them in one discard smfh
2026-09-07 02:44:41
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Michelle Holmelin Larsen :
100/100 , he said it all,
2026-09-07 12:31:23
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Yasemin Ceran :
Long story short: I don’t want YOU.
2026-09-06 10:55:40
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srobins89 :
7/10
2026-09-06 11:54:11
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Jeje83 :
11- te bloqué dès que tu poses une limite
2026-09-06 06:20:16
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Scott Johnson :
yeah i just wont bother again
2026-09-06 12:31:56
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Fifix :
Wait some of you guys got a reason 🤔
2026-09-06 10:15:17
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Linda Butler :
You say 7 we can still be friends is a lie but me and my avoidant ex are friends a year after the split. Known eachother since we were 4 and he’s doing my tattoo currently.
2026-09-06 07:30:41
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🅿️ :
why are they lying for?
2026-09-05 18:48:29
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carolynodham :
spot on 💯
2026-09-05 16:39:55
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razorsharpwit :
heard many of these. especially "I dont know what I want." she sure knew after 3 weeks of seeing each other and when I moved in, and for thr next 6 years, until I caughter her cheating.
2026-09-05 22:57:43
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exclusiive_cuts :
I believe we have to separate the idea of someone who’s not interested in you vs someone who’s genuinely an avoidant, while yes, it’s hard to know which is which, but there’s indications
2026-09-06 03:00:10
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Thomas not Tom :
What wild is I use to show these type of videos to her and she would get so mad. Put it on her FYP
2026-09-06 20:51:40
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Ezi :
💯
2026-09-06 05:39:03
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