@etsubbdiary: i used to take everything that went wrong in my life as proof that i was failing. if i got rejected, i thought i wasn’t good enough. if something didn’t work out, i thought i failed. if i saw people my age doing better than me, i immediately felt behind. and for a long time, i didn’t realize how much the way i spoke to myself was affecting the way i saw my life. so i started questioning those thoughts instead of automatically believing them. rejected? maybe i was being redirected. behind? behind who exactly? failed? okay. i get to try again. and slowly i realized that **the situation doesn’t always have to change for your perspective to change.** i still have setbacks. things still don’t work out. but now instead of immediately asking *“what if it doesn’t work out? i also ask myself: what if it does? 🤍 follow if you’re becoming the best version of yourself. 11/21 #poormindset #richmindset💰 #storytellingchallenge