@coach.ryan0: Your feelings aren’t “too much.” They’re just inconvenient to someone committed to never being uncomfortable. They’ll dismiss your pain, avoid accountability, refuse to communicate… and then call their emotional selfishness a “boundary.” If protecting their comfort always requires sacrificing your feelings, that isn’t love. It’s a relationship built entirely around them. #DismissiveAvoidant #AvoidantAttachment #EmotionallyUnavailable #AttachmentStyles #RelationshipTok

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megan.tiktok37
🌒 𝐌𝐞𝐠𝐚𝐧 :
But I feel like avoidants are never TRULY comfortable… Internally, they are miserable, miserable people…
2026-09-05 20:53:12
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andieb53
Andie B :
But that’s not an excuse….
2026-09-05 16:01:39
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cakeymac
Cakey :
So…. They’re a narcissist. Got it. ✨
2026-09-05 15:22:15
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ben_riley42
Riley B :
talking to humans is uncomfortable. 👍
2026-09-06 20:31:24
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scottishcleanqueen
Scottish Clean Queen :
They'll literally close the door in your face if they don't like what you're saying. They'll hear you sobbing and say and do nothing.
2026-09-06 14:02:23
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prismaticsprout
Rodd :
Avoid the avoidants at all costs
2026-09-06 09:28:56
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beautifulbaby6717
become the best version of you :
so they are incompetent to the fact, I can't fix that
2026-09-06 12:03:01
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michelma000
Michiboo :
they are very uncomfortable with intimacy as well
2026-09-06 05:08:32
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vulcan212
Vulcan212 :
Try having a conversation about their sex apps you have to dig dig and dig. I should’ve known better five years and I find out he was still on them.
2026-09-05 12:45:01
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clubman859
clubman :
I lived with an avoident for years. it's really not worth wasting your time. 🥰
2026-09-06 08:59:16
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justsparkzb
JustSparkz :
Their life is a secret
2026-09-05 21:29:30
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hvnlyangellee
Angellee :
are they also narcissist? how do you know the difference from this and pycopath/ sociopath?
2026-09-06 12:08:38
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just.one.more.thing
Just.one.more.thing :
They’re just not good people and it will always be about themselves. There is no we when it comes to people like this.
2026-09-05 22:42:45
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add56650
GenXADD :
Every single time.
2026-09-05 14:56:00
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penguinbellyflop
Penguin bellyflop :
I was crying, telling my DA I didn’t feel loved. Instead of comforting and reassuring me, I got yelled at, “because I don’t.” They’ll leave you hurting in silence to protect their own weakness.
2026-09-06 09:17:52
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melodiousesq
Melodiousesq :
Lock them up.
2026-09-06 02:06:37
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pirate07sam
Pirate07Sam :
I guess what all these videos you have talked about have really head home on my recently relationship with one only to be discarded for four months into it and being told I had the red flags I’m left to figure out the rest of my life without them because they are unhinged unhealed individuals, and to know that they will find another relationship in which they will do the same to them, and yet all of his exes are blocked. His sisters are blocked. I’m blocked a strained a relationship with his only son and his ex ex-wife hates him, and Amir thought of him infuriated even more but yet I’m the one with the red flags.
2026-09-05 17:19:42
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die_a_saint
IAmLove :
Sounds like someone I know.
2026-09-05 15:38:25
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just_gwen_1
justgwen :
this is my dad and his mom.
2026-09-05 16:28:09
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hero_super_rios
kiryukazuma :
shes being dismissive of my emotions even if they ask me to gift them things when she asked if im ok i dont know i didnt tell them i been sad but she said whats the problem now theres always a problem with you she said to me so i sat here and log off
2026-09-06 15:16:27
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lve2lose
lve2lose :
Coach Ryan thank you for your great videos regarding avoidance. I am glad you're no sugar coating or treating avoidance with kids glove.
2026-09-06 19:35:02
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mildlyfermentedhuman
🫥 :
Weird though, I grew up like that emotionally neglected…and I’m grown, I want to talk things out a resolve stuff…?
2026-09-06 03:24:20
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tracyranks1
Tracy R :
Thank you for your videos!
2026-09-05 13:12:45
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kinga82kn
Knapik82 :
literally💯💯💯
2026-09-05 20:15:34
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kansas76567
KAM :
Nothing is ever their fault and they literally don’t care about anyone other themselves.
2026-09-06 02:14:47
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