@onyeubanatu: People don’t keep scorecards. They remember how you made them feel last They remember what went wrong the LOUDEST. Here’s why: 1. Negativity Bias Our brain weighs 1 bad thing heavier than 5 good things. It’s wired for survival. 2. Recency Effect We remember what happened most recently. That’s why the last “no” erases the 10 “yeses”. 3. Expectation Creep The more you give, the more it becomes “normal”. So when you stop, it feels like a loss. It’s not personal. It’s human nature. Once you understand this, you get peace + better boundaries. What do you think? Have you seen this before? 👇 #OnyeUbanatu #HumanNature #Boundaries #ToxicTruth #LifeLessons

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d.o.e01 :

Boundaries are building blocks of peace

2026-09-05 17:47:56

Omorlady :

In my village there is a name called Edemirukaye 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 because you see people they only remember the day you say No

2026-09-05 12:31:04

God's Mercy :

my dear, that is exactly what i am facing from my own siblings, and one who is supposed to be a daughter. I pray God help me get back better, and bigger 🙏.

2026-09-05 20:30:13

PRISCA...💃🏾 :

Very apt…👌🏽

2026-09-05 19:20:32

cherryxoxo29 :

Since I start do me I do you, I get peace of mind

2026-09-05 23:38:29

✨️ :

wats Yr animal spirit? 😂😂

2026-09-05 23:07:47

Oluafeyijimi :

This………!!!!!

2026-09-05 20:47:30

Kosi|Lifestyle Creator🌸 :

Sincerely

2026-09-05 15:21:46

🌸Licious🌸 :

Moral lesson DONT DISPLEASE YOURSELF TO PLEASE ANYONE and NO DO PASS YOURSELF

2026-09-05 22:46:36

OMO LAROOYE :

YOU LOOK ALIEN 🥺

2026-09-05 22:02:26

kingpeterobi :

👌

2026-09-05 16:25:27

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