@mags730: Ever notice how an argument with someone who has strong narcissistic traits starts with one issue… and somehow ends with YOU defending your memory? That shift is worth paying attention to. #narasstic #abuse #passiveagressiva #toxicrelationship
Many people bring up DARVO but hardly anyone brings up JADE which is probably used even more. It’s psychological torture. 🥺
2026-09-05 16:30:24
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Magda Elmaghrabi 🧿🪬🇪🇬 :
Have you ever started an argument talking about THEIR behavior… and somehow ended up defending your own memory? 👀 What happened?
2026-09-05 17:28:20
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Charlotte Fashion Plate :
Do you think narcissists really don’t know they are narcissists? That’s the only thing that makes me even try and understand their behavior.
2026-09-06 14:30:59
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Logan Hayes :
Always talking circles
2026-09-06 03:06:59
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Cyd :
What about spending 10% of the conversion talking about the issue and the other 90% attacking who you are
2026-09-06 18:54:28
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Bri 🧚♂️ :
YUP! And will always call me out on technicalities when I repeat what he said to me… one time he called me weak for crying… I then repeated to him “you called me weak” he then says “no I didn’t, I said you’re BEING weak”…. And the whole entire argument was about that SINGLE WORD and not about the fact he made me cry and called me weak for doing so…. Wowzas
2026-09-05 23:02:27
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Mommer3434 :
The conversation ALWAYS becomes about their image
2026-09-06 01:22:29
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jasminemcf :
I actually was convinced I had memory problems when I was with my ex. After the divorce it appears that my memory has been just fine the whole time.
2026-09-06 13:08:27
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Later.Alligator :
Questioning everything you think internally while being gaslight as they move the conversational goalposts so nothing is ever better👏👏👏
2026-09-05 14:46:53
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Shenelle✨ :
This was 100% my ex
2026-09-05 12:38:38
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heyyallitsbianca :
And this is why i don’t talk to MANY people lol
2026-09-05 16:02:50
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✰keilani1rl✰ :
Yessss I literally started feeling crazy. I had to write things down to make sure I wasn’t
2026-09-06 14:47:59
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spirit of the sea :
That is their goal 💯%
2026-09-06 20:24:22
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ꨄ︎🄼🄰🄴🅅🄴ꨄ︎ :
Also, if someone is severely emotionally avoidant, they may have disassociative qualities that mimic narcissism quite well. The truth? I would highly suggest never staying around to find out 😅
2026-09-05 22:43:20
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nani 🕷 :
i hate that i used to call him out on that too like stfu no one cares about how ur being perceived as much as u, im focused on wtf u did and then it would become a whole thing now i dont care about him and i drag everything and i always have a problem 😂😂 plsss!!!
2026-09-07 09:26:47
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Cosmic Mama :
My mother was so bad I didn't see my ex as a problem.
2026-09-05 16:50:22
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carlamariefreed :
I live with someone like this right now. We don’t speak anymore. Ya we live in the same house but I can’t bear to engage with her anymore.
2026-09-10 05:41:17
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BlackCat energy :
Well said!!!
2026-09-05 14:41:46
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Sipswellwithothers :
Can you give examples?
2026-09-06 14:11:24
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Retrograde Ambrose :
What’s crazy is by the end I got this from my ex (nearly verbatim, condensing a few messages): “you’re wrong. It had been a proven fact that your perception of events is just wrong. You cannot trust your memory, you cannot trust yourself. You have to trust me, and trust me when I say, it is all your fault, you’re the abuser, and I haven’t done anything wrong.”
2026-09-06 20:01:15
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akdaisy :
Nailed it!
2026-09-06 21:05:38
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Rae💋 :
My ex asf
2026-09-06 04:45:32
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LC :
12 years dealing with that made me crazy. Glad I’m finally free of him. Hindsight is really 20/20.
2026-09-06 18:26:22
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KhayJ :
Like saying I was in a relationship when I posted a thirst trap (years before we met) when I very much was not.
2026-09-06 17:56:41
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G WAY :
I remember when I caught them cheating I became the reason why they cheated I rather be single forever
2026-09-06 20:56:50
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