@melrobbins: This conversation on The Mel Robbins Podcast with @GaryVee is one of our fastest-growing episodes of all time. One of the things he said that is resonating the most: "I am so tired of people being so mad at their mom and dad without taking a good look at what their grandparents did to mom and dad." What do you think? Let me know below - and also share what you learned from this conversation that millions of people are connecting with. 🎧 "This One Episode Will Motivate You to Change Your Entire Life" Listen on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, or YouTube - search "Mel Robbins Podcast Gary Vee"
It not they’re fault but its THEIR JOB to break the cycle and BE BETTER.
2026-09-08 14:10:47
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s :
This is a terrible take.
2026-09-08 17:11:02
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schmooperboo :
This is such gaslighting, patronizing BS
2026-09-08 17:07:46
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ThatsTheFeesh :
The type of video my mom probably watches to feel vindicated lol
2026-09-09 01:30:25
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k80k80k80 :
Yes, it’s not their fault either, but they also need to recognize that as well. It’s not the child’s responsibility to tolerate grandparents’ and parents’ trauma responses and behaviors because they can’t recognize and change it themselves.
2026-09-08 13:50:33
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Jaclyn Evans•CPT :
Shit take. We all know it's been passed down for generations. It's their complete and total lack of OWNERSHIP that continues the very cycle we are trying to break.
2026-09-09 17:06:55
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Meek Melly :
so parents cant be held accountable? lmao
2026-09-08 19:26:14
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knights.court :
How far back are we gonna go before just telling people to take responsibility for their own actions?
2026-09-09 15:21:59
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Amma Starr :
so who should I blame for my moms two brothers that grapped me when I was 12? grandma or mom?
2026-09-08 17:00:47
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Smokin' J's :
i understand. but it is their fault. because im not treating my child the way i was treated. im not passing it on. they were adult, they had a choice. the same choice i have now.
2026-09-09 15:18:54
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user3293906801077 :
So much mansplaining
2026-09-08 17:59:16
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Unc Joey :
We’re demanding personal accountability
2026-09-08 17:24:21
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That Shabang 🇿🇦 :
I am no longer carrying other people's traumas. End of story
2026-09-09 08:16:13
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Marcy :
Accountability. For me. For my parents. Every single person needs to take accountability for how they have harmed another person. Period.
2026-09-08 17:41:50
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LauraDig :
WHO IS GOING TO STOP THE CYCLE OF ABUSE?!?
2026-10-24 19:12:35
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GraceRockySaveStars :
Not everyone got a free multimillion dollar vineyard like good old Gary did
2026-10-31 21:13:29
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Ranaza 🐸🕯 :
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2026-09-09 06:55:11
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neyomidiary :
It’s up to the parents to grow up and not let their past define their personality;because they may passing their own experience to their children.
2026-09-08 13:07:56
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daisy :
Forgiveness will set you free….
2026-09-08 23:48:29
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erinsheaxo :
I changed. They didn’t. I chose and fought to be this way, they could’ve too.
2026-09-08 18:53:11
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klvwwq :
Is this a joke ? so then are we’re supposed to blame the grandparents parents as well 😂 every adult is responsible for their actions if u choose to have kids than that’s on you
2026-09-09 11:09:06
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Michelle Kennedy :
I am able to be the mom I didn’t have- period.
2026-09-09 13:03:36
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Ellle :
No. When I became a parent, I found out it's all about choices. And if I can sit there and decide to parent differently, they could have done that too. So, no. I am done with people who are incapable of being accountable, when they only had to choose to not be cruel.
2026-09-11 03:30:11
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