cae :
please, if u have a partner like this, ayusin niyo yung pagiging avoidant niyo if u don't want the person u love to eventually get tired of understanding u. actually, ganyan siya before. he understood me so much, to the point na pati mga kasalanan ko, inaako niya js to understand where i was coming from. he used to beg for my attention, pero i chose to ignore him sometimes kasi avoidant ako. he courted me for 4 months and sinagot ko siya nung july, and now parang nasa boring/distant stage na kami. idk if dahil ba sa mga ginawa ko before or maybe may nakakausap siyang ibang girl? aminado ako na avoidant ako, but i'm genuinely trying to change nmn. kaso ngayon, siya naman yung nagiging distant. and it made me realize na people can get tired too, kahit gaano ka nila kamahal or naiintindihin before. so if you're avoidant like me, please work on it habang may taong willing pang umintindi sa'yo. don't wait until they get tired of reaching out, understanding you, and choosing you. kasi once they start pulling away, doon mo marerealize how much their effort actually meant to you. 🥹
2026-09-07 03:41:48