If the universe didn’t want me to do it alone then they would put people in my life that didn’t require me to ask for help.
2026-09-05 21:23:07
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manifesting.madison :
Why do we do this at the most inconvenient time and it HAS to be done at that moment or we’ll be pissed?
2026-09-05 17:47:51
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alykingtattoo :
I’m hyper-independent because my whole life anytime someone has offered help or try to do something nice it’s turned into something transactional and thrown in my face so I’d rather just do it all myself and not deal with the feeling of owing someone
2026-09-06 13:21:02
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farnorcalcat :
Me and my trauma don’t have time to wait for anyone to help so we do it
2026-09-05 19:51:01
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gabriel_9esme :
Like what’s am I supposed to do about it Linda! Not do shit? Then who’s gonna do it?? Who’s gonna do it!!??
2026-09-05 20:20:13
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Huneebee🐝 :
Trauma.. stubbornness...strong will...call it whatever you want! Am I supposed to feel bad about my actions because someone slaps a trauma label on it?!!! I have shit to do and I want it done NOW!!
2026-09-06 14:05:23
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🌺🇧🇷 :
therapist never call males hyper indipendet 😂
2026-09-06 18:59:45
118
Jasmine Green :
Who tf else is going to do it when I have no one else
2026-09-05 22:48:00
91
Torrie Ann ❤️🔥 :
Oh it’s 2 AM? Perfect time to piss myself off with decluttering my entire room. 😭
2026-09-06 11:52:30
32
Haley Henderson :
i literally told my therapist “so basically my entire life is a trauma response”
2026-09-07 02:48:44
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Jenn 💙 :
When people say you can’t do that alone. Bet. I’ve already done it twice alone. 😂
2026-09-07 01:23:54
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alexa_loewe :
I was brought up with the saying: “You can’t rely on people. If you look for a helping hand, look at the end of your arm”
2026-09-06 12:36:48
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Kira :
Definition of me. Single, hyper independent af 😭
2026-09-06 00:27:47
7
Cami :
They always say you don’t have to do everything yourself but don’t see them offering or doing it themselves 😂😂
2026-09-06 11:52:27
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Shelby :
No because quite literally you also go into a state of “If this doesn’t get done right now ASAP, life will not go on” mindset 🤣
2026-09-08 02:28:51
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Leslie McClellan :
word💕..🤓
+literally have the same bed frame..🌹
2026-09-06 17:55:13
1
Jen :
Well good to know I’m not the only one.😏
2026-09-06 10:10:03
1
Justė Kavaliauskaitė :
yes we are busy today
2026-09-06 15:28:26
1
R0B!N•rambles :
And we do this like at least once every season 😝🧑🩰
2026-09-05 15:43:09
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Hannah :
Me and my fucking trauma don’t have time for this today the dresser is getting moved I don’t care that it suggests two people
2026-09-06 12:46:02
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caitlinwest25 :
Did your brain at any point try to fight you on how unreasonable the timing of getting it done was? I feel like I do that to myself, I still get it done no matter what though😩
2026-09-05 19:30:16
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itz_jozzz :
Me when I packed and unpacked a U-Haul alone.
2026-09-06 05:52:12
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mklaupch :
Please keep in mind that independence is also excellent for women, because society told us to rely on men for so much when we are plenty capable of doing that task and learning how. Everything in balance.
2026-09-05 22:25:34
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Blakers :
I was happily married once…. I would ask for him to it… 2 seconds later I did it myself every. Damn. Time. I put my baby’s crib together myself cause two men with zero patience makes chaos and a crooked baby bed. Me and and my mind…. 5 mins.. done. Quiet. Peaceful. It’s my relax time.
2026-09-05 23:21:25
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Kins💜 :
Big on “if you want something done right you have to do it yourself”
2026-09-06 13:29:27
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