Anaya
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nishabreakers.1 :
That “You can come if you want” literally means if you wana come so bad come 😂
2026-09-06 09:51:40
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angie :
LITERALLY. & the way people still do this well into adulthood while in a professional field/ program
2026-10-16 04:22:00
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Gladis Sisi :
Just Observing and acting accordingly…
2026-09-05 17:51:29
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just.me.kee :
I've cut everyone off - choosing my friends very carefully now
2026-09-05 18:11:30
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Car :
I’ve learned exclusion is a losers game. They want you to feel bad ab yourself, but don’t actually have sh!t on you. “You can’t sit w us” is all they have 😂
2026-09-06 14:41:12
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Chloe Grace :
inviting your partner but not you
2026-09-06 08:14:12
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Xolotl :
at work, I was excluded from a project where I was the only engineer with actual experience on said type of project. I stood on the side when I saw it burn to the ground. I was asked for help and excused myself saying I didn't had the official scope thus I could not take over it. 😁
2026-09-06 09:08:14
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Mama Gun ★ :
I raise you “I wish you were there” but made no effort to let me know the thing was even happening
2026-09-06 14:19:07
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Zeina_24 :
I ignored these when they first showed up. Got worse over time turned into public humiliation ritual. I slowly ghosted them
2026-09-05 18:31:18
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amandamawanda0 :
I stopped going over board to be a part of a group.
2026-09-06 21:22:59
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TA :
On this plus side, this has allowed me to become that much more intentional about making people feel included. ❤️
2026-09-06 13:28:57
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DaniellArt :
Let's normalize ghosting people that exclude us Not that hard
2026-09-07 09:59:18
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tyemarenee.art :
I just started excluding them back until we just weren’t friends anymore. Idgaf
2026-09-06 21:32:06
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Jenn :
I listened to my work colleagues plan a team Christmas event, my team was a fraction of the size and reported into the same manager even sat at adjoining desks. They sent out the invites and we weren’t included. Fine, they want to be separate, fine. They didn’t get enough people rsvp yes to secure their booking for their venue. I then watched my manager sit with them and brainstorm how to get the numbers up and suggesting to invite us. Except I had deliberately organised our own little team party at a different event for the same night, and we had already bought our tickets.😁
2026-09-06 16:15:04
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mal :
i brought those girls together and i was the one excluded
2026-09-08 09:22:30
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Becoming Her :
5.Being included in the groups and not the chat. I was getting weird vibes on the trip, I left second day. And their WhatsApp status after were them matching outfits and I had no idea , THANK God I left
2026-09-06 10:16:46
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Natasha Ndlovu :
This. I let it slide for years. Safe to say I’ve left that dynamic and should have done so ages ago.
2026-09-05 17:48:05
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🍓✨ Sammie Rae ✨ 🍓 :
I don’t mind if people hang without me, but don’t talk about your plans in front of me. 🙄 I thought we all were taught it was rude
2026-09-07 13:29:26
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Sean D :
I’m excluded on purpose. I don’t mind it anymore.
2026-09-07 01:12:30
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uwotmate2 :
My Friends are just enablers to the people who dislike me. Appease them as to not upset the group dynamics at the cost of their friendship with moi
2026-09-06 17:40:51
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🌺 poppy :
I’ve felt like this my entire life
2026-09-07 07:44:31
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Singh’s Landing :
I always up the ante on this subject. When you are excluded or left behind by friends from gatherings, events, group trips and vacations, it’s not just the organizer or host that left you off the invite list. The others in the group see this but choose to say nothing. True friends, step up and speak up. They advocate for your presence. They advocate for YOU. By choosing to remain silent, and not ask questions, they show that they didn’t want you there either. Obviously it depends on the situation. Yet if you’re consistently left out, the excuse of “I wasn’t the one organizing it” or “talk to so & so, he sent out the invite” doesn’t fly. Not with me. It’s not just the organizer that I hold accountable. By choosing to say nothing and just go with the flow, you chose to leave me behind as well. You’re not just an innocent bystander. Inaction *is* action. Read what I said above and remember it always.
2026-09-07 04:25:09
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valval~°🪻🌷✨️ :
Heavy on the quietly noticing and noting it. Once i realise im not being included or considered, i stop fighting for that friendship. I have friends who have me in chat groups where im always included in the plans, even tho i never use social media. Real friends don't make you feel excluded or give you a chase invite.
2026-09-07 10:52:50
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🍓ྀིྀི(･̑◡･̑)♡ᶠʳᵒᶻᵉⁿᵇᵉʳʳⁱᵉˢ𓃗 :
I got an invite to something and I was so happy until I learned my friend was invited months ago and just because others dropped out, I was asked to go in their place
2026-09-07 07:37:20
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beehforreal :
When someone shows everyone @the table something on their phone, but doesnt show you. Thats so weird to me.
2026-09-08 01:57:11
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