@healingwithemilyg: This was a hard lesson for me to learn bc I realized I had to be the one to close the door for good. It’s up to you to complete the discard and move forward. #narcissisticabuse #narcissisticrelationship #attachmentissues #narcissisticabuserecovery #datingtips

Cilla Bel Air :

Blocked him!! I’ll never forgive him

ca4life4444 :

Some men just have zero maturity or empathy

the space queen 🪐🩷👑 :

My man has said men only change if staying the same is more painful than changing.

L W :

You literally have to leave them..period

Krista🛸👽 :

this is why i never let them get away with shit 😂

m8terialgrlll :

My ex called me 7 times on no caller id yesterday I finally answered and he said he just wanted to hear my voice I told him fuck that and hung up in his face I don’t desire him anymore he’s no longer my safe space after he hurt me the last time took a while to walk away but I’m done now

cher.shroom🍄‍🟫🌅 :

yup. I have lived this truth

Ducov Designs :

They do not change.

calabaza :

Yep mine waited until I was done to change. Now he’s trying bc I don’t feel or want anything. He was given warnings and clear speech for more than a year. Final straw was he ghosted me for a month after more than a decade together. I detached. Now he’s trying but my feelings are gone.

lilyc_77 :

Karma will always get them trust

KLO.1.2.3 :

It’s a team project between the girls

Eunice :

Yup, left and blocked. Changed my number too, a number I had for 10 years. He had a 2nd chance already and blew it 😅

lilbbmuffn :

You are literally showing them what you will accept if you stay. Hence why I left 🙂‍↕️

Laura⚕️ :

I needed this reminder

User1234555 :

All ‘no contact’ did was prove what I had been avoiding this whole time. He never cared about me. I was only around for convenience 😞 every one tried to tell me but I was convinced otherwise. It’s been a whole year & he’s never tried reaching out

e :) :

Literally had an ex run into me after the fact and THANK me for doing what I did and leaving. It’s for the best on both sides babe 🤞🏽

outwithtrenna :

Blocked him

user8577928228830 :

So true

Inthetwixmg :

Yuppp yup

Emiii30 :

Trash Haunt :

I’ve been with my fiancée for 7 years now my Ex still reaches out trying to get me back. Bro it’s been 7 years I’ve been ignoring him but he doesn’t care and neither do police.

wellnesswithq :

Thank you!!

Kristin👀 :

So true

Angel Russ :

I think this is a fair statement about anyone and everyone. I’ve been parenting for 22 years and let me tell you what lies to my daughters and son. No one is going to change their negative behavior without consequence. I get what you’re saying, but I feel like this is so broad and it applies to both genders as well as all ages.

banana_pie :

I’ve kicked him out multiple times, cussed him out and don’t the worst. He still chooses me at the end of the day. WHY? 😭😭😭😭