@thehealingcleric: If an avoidant was deactivating, they still had the choice to leave. Instead, they stayed while emotionally withdrawing, continued using the relationship for comfort or security, and may have been promoting someone else in the background. Stop romanticizing the deactivation. Their behavior was a choice—and you don’t need to spend years trying to decode it. 🧠 #AvoidantAttachment #AvoidantEx #Rumination #BreakupHealing #NoContact

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