@arienmalik: What does consideration actually look like in a relationship? Consideration isn’t just about grand gestures. It’s about paying enough attention to someone that you remember what matters to them, and let that information change how you show up.
I literally just ended things with this guy I’ve been dating due to a lack of consideration.
2026-09-06 14:11:19
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christina ♃ :
I’ve always considered my partners, but have never been considered by them.
2026-09-06 10:55:32
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fourfourfour :
I heard somebody say “if you gotta ask more than twice, you’re begging” and I ain’t been the same since…. Consideration is everything and more. If you don’t consider your person, you should consider being alone and letting them go. 😭
2026-09-06 04:47:57
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n0hser :
Agreed. Consideration is not just thought-based, it’s action-based.
2026-09-07 16:29:25
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Alishia Ireland :
I used these same tips and ended up blocking everyone..🤷🏽♀️
2026-09-06 04:04:54
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SeeRiRi🇯🇲🇨🇦 :
Heavy on the "does it last when you're not around?" I think consideration & consistency go hand in hand here
2026-09-08 21:39:35
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😪 :
wtf is wrong with me😂
2026-09-08 22:43:22
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BScN | Nanna🧡𐙚 :
i though this person considered me coz one time i had a medical scare annd i was told to get some medicine....he went and got it for me...prepared...and brough it despite being in different counties...later in life i came to learn as he did all this he was secretly to his "bestie"..the same person that made stuff up about me buut he sided with her
2026-09-08 16:44:44
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Fiestyy.beauty :
I have a whole list of stuff in my notes abt her…her likes, her dislikes, her fav everything, what she season her noodles wit 🤣but she couldn’t even make my plate (I always make her plate and cook for her)
2026-09-06 16:45:27
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🦋🤍 :
Consideration is the highest form of love 📌
2026-09-08 19:49:45
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Jaqualene_Phasha :
the Lil things... are you learning anything about me?
2026-09-08 19:19:31
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Jose S.M. :
this goes for friends too
2026-09-06 03:05:56
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caylee :
i mentioned one time, ONE time that i wanted to try playing pickleball with him bc we’ve both never played and i thought it would be fun. couple days later he surprised me with the paddles and balls. it’s little stuff like that, that truly makes a difference and makes you feel seen.
2026-09-07 03:58:44
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🎸Mavrock 🐸 :
Im always trying to be more considerate to my girl i feel like its a muscle you gotta keep working
2026-09-06 08:54:10
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Helen 🇵🇷 :
Exactly!!!
2026-09-08 16:40:44
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Paula not Pollar :
Heavy on making your life easier
2026-09-07 13:43:34
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Rebecca🦭🦋 :
😂😂😂😂noooop but he broke up with me because he said he’s not good for me so is that consideration
2026-09-07 11:32:36
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bigmamat666 :
My bf and go to the gym together everyday. He makes my gym drinks every morning, and he bought a new preworkout for himself based on what flavor he thought I’d like in case i wanted to use it. He does stuff like that constantly 😭
2026-09-06 15:37:49
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alexagarza_617 :
me realizing I've never been considered once in my whole 11 year relationship...
2026-09-07 20:01:21
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Barbra :
I tell men that want to date me I HATE texting! So, if you text me, I’m not responding. Then after repeated ignored texts, they will call asking me why am I ignoring their texts. Then we have the “we ain’t gone work” conversation and I wish them the best.
2026-09-06 02:26:02
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michealyn 💜 :
my ex of two years couldn’t remember my favorite place to eat at for date night, but a guy i was just casually seeing from Hinge for like a month and a half kept a list of foods/places i liked/disliked in his notes app. definitely opened my eyes.
2026-09-07 01:55:31
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S :
Some men be acting like they just got too much going on (mentally, financially) that they can’t do the little things you ask of
2026-09-06 23:25:30
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