@imbougieonabudget: #money #budget #moneytips #finance #nervoussystem

JennyK :

yes you are so right about guilt. it's so crippling.

REꓷЯUM :

my problem is that I keep seeing everyone on social media talk about nervous system regulation, almost like it's become the new psych buzz word, but no one ever describes what that even means or how to go about it. my nerves constantly feel like they're on fire yet frozen and I'm in decision paralysis every day and nothing seems to help

Elle ✨ :

So where do I start ??

Britt :

How do I help my 12 yo son who needs a dopamine hit from novelty CONSTANTLY. He doesn’t even realize how many times he asks me to buy something in a day! I bet it’s about 5 things a day he sends to me that he wants. Help!!!

Depresso :

i hope you know that your videos are changing my life as well. I have similar issues, a lot of guilt mixed with big spending. i'm in a decent job now, i can afford to indulge myself, but i'm still living paycheck to paycheck and thought myself a hopeless cause. But you were so right, setring a goal on something you really want and prioritizing sleep & emotional regulation helped A LOT! i'm 25 and 4 years ago i opened my first credit card ($1500 dollars max, but i live in a country where it's much bigger money), maxed it out in 8 months, wasn't able to make ANY progress towards closing it, it was maxed out all this time. i was able to close more than a half of it in the last year but it's still not done. I didn't have any behavioural changes despite stress of being broke and unsafe. but i've been watching you for a few months and was actually able to save a decent amount. now the thing i was saving for i no longer want for now and my behaviour returned to previous patterns. i'llm looking for a new thing to want in my life but it was SO helpful to know i'm not a lost cause and i'm actually able to be responsible with my financial lifestyle under certain circumstances. I'm really depressed and it's so so hard for me to find anything good in myself or in the world around me and you played such a big part in me now being slightly more positive about my future

alexxbites :

I spend when I’m stressed, but not broke. So that’s ok so far 😮‍💨😄 I’ve spent years budgeting, and still do, but now I feel less guilty

museme222 :

okay but what's "little bit"? asking for a friend lol 😬

jkayman :

wow, you have become a new person

uroicah :

Could you expand on this topic? I’m good at holding onto money, but I’m stuck in both survival mode and a specific job that doesn’t allow me to increase my earnings. For years I’ve lived very frugally, and when I occasionally need to spend money, I run into trouble—mainly fear or guilt. I also often experience decision paralysis.

goofihehehe :

Yeah it’s not about knowing what to do, it’s about knowing how to regulate your emotions and be aware about it before it hijacks your brain.

skyraia2 :

Omg i’m so early. Locked in

VoiceByRahim 🎙️ :

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user7352746361655 :

This is me in a way too! I have been giving myself an amount of money to do what I want with and my finances have never been better

eLoNaR :

Thank you for this video 🤞🏾

soundhealingwithmel :

keypieces :

Come to the point, sister 😂

shestartedat43 :

Omg this hits home. Thank you, thank you, thank you,

one diligent :

🔥 Super HOTT 🔥

vita.radzina :

Cool video

alex :

ive been getting alot of your videos and finally hit subscribe and just gotta say, your sincerely the first person to make me feel like I have the ability to budget and balance my finances.