@drmkhulu.m: Losing a child is a pain no woman should be expected to carry alone. 🖤 But let’s have the uncomfortable conversation: why do some men disappear emotionally when their woman needs them the most? She may be the one physically going through the loss, but that doesn’t mean she should be left alone to process the grief, guilt, confusion and pain. Being a man isn’t only about being present when everything is going well. Sometimes, masculinity means sitting beside your woman when there are no words to fix what happened. And yes, men grieve too. But silence, distance and emotional absence can make an already painful experience even harder. If you helped create the child, why shouldn’t you also help carry the pain? This conversation may offend some people, but it needs to be had. 🖤🙏🏾 #spiritualism #fyp #southafricantiktok🇿🇦 #viraltiktok #spiritualtiktok🧿