@isabel.zurina: 5 things i started doing when he wanted 50/50 before he was even consistently showing up as her dad: 1 Communication. I started tracking every visit and every missed opportunity 2 Built her “Visit Timeline” I kept dates, gaps, how long visits lasted & how our baby responded 3 Offered a smaller schedule that put her routine first. Short visits, public visits & chances to actually build consistency. 4 Created my own step up plan. I was terrified my baby would go from barely knowing him to overnights like a relationship already existed 5 Prepared for him to improve. I stopped betting on “he’ll never change” and started planning what more time could look like if he actually showed up. I built a roadmap for how parenting time could grow instead of waiting until court to figure it out under pressure. If you need somewhere to start just direct message me ‘STEP’ and I’ll send you the plan I used I’m a mom sharing what I did in my own case. I’m not a lawyer, and this isn’t legal advice. #custodybattle #parentingplan #newmoms
sorry if this offends people but a newborn doesn't need their father yet. a newborn needs their mother and only their mother. newborns don't know that they're a seperate person from their mother so when they know she isn't around they will continue to cry and cry until theyre in their mothers arms. children DO need their fathers 100% and fathers have a right to spend time with their kids, just not in this point and time in the child's life.
2026-09-06 21:29:20
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serena :
what's a man need a newborn for?
2026-09-07 13:49:26
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blueeyedbratx :
These men don’t want their kids they just want to punish the mom.
2026-09-07 00:59:50
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lifeonthehill_ :
Separating a newborn or infant really in general from their mother is diabolical
2026-09-06 19:50:56
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Megladon :
Most judges would not make any court orders till the baby is over 12 months old 💯 Stress less when you go to court represent yourself Tell the judge the truth, ask for an adjournment till you can seek legal advice Judges see through dead beat fathers pretty fast 😏 I represented myself in family court until legal aid could help me Father wanted 50/50 he ended up with 20/80 then moved state a few months later 🤯 I raised both sons without child support (the debt just grows) and put them both through private Catholic boys high school by myself My greatest achievement was seeing my eldest son graduate this year, followed by his younger brother next year 😏
2026-10-07 09:54:14
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ElderMillennial 💙 :
Any father that would deprive their newborn of a fit mother, isn’t a fit parent himself.
2026-09-07 00:09:57
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glitter-possum🦡💫 :
nope. he can visit. newborns need MOM.
2026-09-07 17:08:46
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em! :
The men in this comment section saying a NEWBORN doesn’t need their mother…LMAO
2026-09-07 04:05:21
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professoruxas :
What happened to it takes TWO?
2026-09-07 09:49:56
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sureshot :
Men are parents too.
2026-09-07 13:24:41
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chino430 :
how do you feel about the lindsay clancy case should now be required at all custody hearings!!
2026-09-07 03:09:36
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mediaevalpussy :
that should be illegal. genuinely illegal. like, on a biological level, that is evil for both the mother and the baby.
2026-09-06 19:49:31
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Gerdieee ✨ :
Well it’s his kid too?
2026-09-06 23:43:37
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Mariela :
Just for him to hand the baby over to his mom or current girlfriend.
2026-09-07 15:35:34
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Annika Lee :
I think it’s funny how none of the men in these comments seem to know a lot of breastfed babies will rather starve than take a bottle, making separating baby from the mother life threatening to the child
2026-09-07 04:55:15
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Julia Evans :
Same lol
2026-10-06 16:35:45
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Brielle_8 :
We go through so much to bring a baby into the world. And prior months growing them for a MAN to just come and make us feel like this is INSANE there should be laws for things like this like men do better.
2026-09-26 09:33:40
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izzy_19903 :
Fathers are weird for doing this at a newborn stage
2026-09-07 04:03:01
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🫦 :
Men cannot do anything for newborns or any baby under the age of 12 months. So why is everyone in the comments trying their hardest to disprove that?
2026-09-07 20:05:14
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No One :
The amount of comments in here being against fathers having equal rights with their children is wild.
2026-09-07 14:57:29
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Donna Drums :
Why would anyone remove a newborn baby from the mother? Can’t believe people think that ok lol
2026-09-06 22:02:12
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Jessica🐼 🖤 :
You can fight it. Breast feeding and post partum. Ask your doctor for help.
2026-09-06 22:13:25
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Anne :
Why kind of dad would want the newborn to be away from its Mom for more than a couple of hours?
2026-09-06 17:06:05
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tiate_ :
Just for him to have his mother raise it because no man is waking up every 1-3 hours with a newborn
2026-09-07 15:32:24
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marceljoburn :
Genuinely one of the weirdest TikTok comment sections I’ve ever seen, even in a working relationship with a newborn ideally taking care of the baby should be 50/50 y’all are weird
2026-09-07 10:11:28
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