@a_girlandhercats: THEY WERE BOTH HIS VICTIMS. Mark sexually assaulted Gibsie. Mark sexually assaulted Lizzie. Their trauma does not need to be compared, and their completely different responses to that trauma certainly do not prove that Mark treated one of them with “kindness.” You can dislike Lizzie. You can criticize her behavior. But rewriting the actions of a rapist as “kindness” toward his victim because you hate that victim is fucking vile. And seeing 6,000+ likes on that narrative? Yeah. This is exactly why I will continue talking about the way this fandom discusses Lizzie Young. #LizzieYoung #BoysOfTommen #Releasing10 #ChloeWalsh #BookTok Lizzie Young, Mark Allen, Gibsie, Gerard Gibson, Lizzie and Gibsie, Mark Allen abuse, Lizzie Young trauma, Gibsie trauma, Releasing 10, Taming 7, Boys of Tommen, Chloe Walsh, Lizzie Young defense, Lizzie Young discourse, Boys of Tommen fandom, victim blaming, trauma response, abuse survivor, BookTok discourse, Releasing 10 analysis

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lyssaxreads
lyssaxreads :
personally, i think two things can be true. he pretended to be “kind” in the beginning, becoming her friend when she had none, “playing” with her, “fixing” her, giving her “medicine”. In the process of grooming her, he pretended to be “kind.” It’s a common grooming tactic. I think the words we use when talking about these things are important, but it’s also important to recognize that abusers and rapists are most commonly the people we trust, the people we are closest to, who, yes, begin with pretend kindness to get us to trust them.
2026-09-06 16:23:39
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annaingram0
°❀⋆.ೃ࿔*:・ AnnaIngram °❀⋆.ೃ࿔*:・ :
They say ‘reward her’ like she wasn’t being abused and manipulated since a child. Actually makes me sick that people use that wording when they’ve got a whole book full of context and still decide to speak bad about her
2026-09-06 17:43:25
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cash_v88
Cash_v88 :
Grooming and manipulation. Different tactics were used with Liz and Gibs but they were groomed and manipulated. Using the word “kind” in a sentence with that monster makes my gut twist. Mark is the devil.
2026-09-06 16:41:35
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eshandtheplot
Esh 📚🧋✨ :
Its too many people trying to be profound on this app and not making and sense 😩
2026-09-06 17:01:18
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determinedrose_2111
rosemary :
THANK YOU! I’ve seen so many videos on this and it’s so aggravating?? it’s so weird to say that kindness was used against Lizzie because that was never true! People say that in the beginning he was ‘kind’ to her, BUT that was to manipulate and deceive her.. that’s not true kindness if he already had an underlying objective to manipulate her.. he was NEVER kind to her. If he was kind, he wouldn’t have fucking raped her.. And saying that just undermines all the abuse and trauma that she went through like did they not read the scenes where he would hit her, choke her, call her names and assault her sexually?!? … like she’s not mean because Mark was ‘nice’ what, thats so horrible to say? she has other stuff going on too that makes her defensive bc that’s her coping mechanism because of her trauma.. and as for Gibs he’s kind because he’s just a good person. He uses humor and jokes to act as a mask to cope with his trauma… they’re just two teenagers who cope differently, but to say that one received kindness from their rapist is crazy and to just say that Gibbs is kind because Mark was mean and a bully is so insane and just oversimplifies their character so much. Im annoyed.
2026-09-06 16:22:21
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girlobsessedwithbooks
girlobsessedwithbooks🎀 :
ive been saying this for ages but no one was listening🤦🏻‍♀️
2026-09-06 23:08:24
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jacqwhit
jacqwhit :
I have seen this statement time and time again, and despite challenging it repeatedly, it continues to be perpetuated. Liz was a 6yo child being told “if you bite me, I’ll kill her”. There was no kindness ever. There was predatory grooming, with a significant power imbalance (physically, emotionally and intellectually) from an older, sociopathic child intent on deliberately inflicting harm over a much younger child. He identified exactly how to manipulate both Liz & Caoimhe, and used the emotional chaos in their house to exploit them. The questions he is asking Caoimhe in the first interaction in the Young house as a series of red flags. The fact that people cannot identify grooming, coercive control, and blatant threats, and have the gall to label it “kindness”
2026-09-06 18:16:13
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antoinettecealopesreads
antoinettecealopesreads :
I only read the first two books and I AM TERRIFIED TO KEEP GOINF
2026-09-06 16:05:20
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lovely_likliza
lovely_likliza :
It’s always a contest in this fandom 🫩
2026-09-06 16:09:33
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shaz84044
shaz :
And for the sake of your sanity stay off twitter or x or whatever it’s called. I deleted the app ages ago.
2026-09-06 19:32:14
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spookysmommy
Amber Rose :
It’s too early for this Olivia
2026-09-06 16:17:17
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darkmysticsiedrkona
Every1’s_Favorite_Obsession🫦 :
Ya when I see ! Gibsie was always happy because mark was mean and Lizzie was always mean because mark was nice to her !!!! WHAT he was never nice to her , she says once she was fixed but it wasn’t mark who did it this time it was Hugh and Hugh didn’t have to hurt her or be mean to do it!!!
2026-09-06 19:44:18
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esella_rod
esella :
i need these people to KINDLY F*CK OFF
2026-09-07 02:09:48
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fafictionalreads
Фатима :
HE ALSO HIT HER WITH THE BELT AND BEAT HER TOO?!? AND SA ED HER HER WHOLE LIFE. AND SO MUCH MORE
2026-09-06 22:59:15
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luvismsei
👑🚗🦌🎧📚 :
thank you! they always confuse his manipulation into “kindness”. like no, he is a rapist and there is not kindness inside of him.
2026-09-06 21:25:01
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confetticake06
🐝 :
it’s so gross! how was he ever kind to liz he threatened to kill the people she loved and brainwashed and manipulated her?!?!
2026-09-07 16:52:04
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shaz84044
shaz :
Kind and him do not go together ever
2026-09-06 19:30:26
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