@trentsetta: A boy matches your chaos A man absorbs it and gives you calm back A boy needs you to regulate him A man regulates himself & helps regulate you A boy goes quiet or reactive when things get hard A man stays steady when things get hard This isn’t about age. Plenty of 35 year olds are still matching energy. Plenty of 22 year olds already know how to guide it. The tell isn’t how he acts when things are good. It’s what he does when they’re not. #datingadviceforwomen #viral #guidance #advice #relationships