@family.law.explained: Why am I always held to a standard when the other parent isn’t? False Equivalence is the concept in in divorce and child custody that no one talks about. ##familylaw##coparenting##narcissisticparent##singleparent##custodybattle
Losing small today, so you win big in the future.
This is exactly what I've done so far. But it is challenging when the other parent creates a lot of noise with made up accusations, false allegations, smear campaigns, etc. They create the noise to claim this False Equivalency.
2026-09-08 09:36:15
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Terieann✨ :
I just downloaded your app! THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR HAVING THIS! FOR MAKING IT FREE! THANK YOU!
2026-09-06 17:50:50
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Amberzonian :
I have been in court for ten years and that moment has never come and all he does is break the orders and even told the judge her orders were stupid !!!! He has taken me to court every time ! He has only won once !
2026-09-06 16:55:20
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💜Delilah S💜 :
Clean Hands Doctrine
2026-09-06 18:54:34
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Eye of the storm :
as a pro se for the last 5 years....I can agree to this 💯.....I keep my side of street clean. I constantly take the high road. it sucks being the good parent all the time and it's not fair with all the attacks...BUT he's right. judges look at patterns.... and last time...unloading happened. I didn't say more than 3 words total.... she knew and took all the words out of my mouth. VERY SMART ADVICE
2026-09-06 18:01:07
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Pair of Pitties :
Any suggestions on an intervenor? I am a co owner on the marital home, lived with the family for 15 months and also requested custody of their children. My attorney has just gone out on medical leave unexpectedly until 2027 so I’ll likely be pro se to avoid holding things up.
2026-09-09 03:13:13
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Cinabelle_ :
It’s SO incredibly frustrating
2026-09-11 15:17:40
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ghost7echo :
The double standard that the court carries is absolutely insulting. But this is why I say that the Duluth model needs to go as well. It’s all outdated. Everybody is just a number. They do not care about children. If they did, a lot more fathers would be present in the children’s lives.
2026-09-28 04:42:41
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Stay at home exwife || Austin :
lol I love your page :))
2026-09-07 16:58:09
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thaguy223 :
I remain calm no matter what she says or does
2026-09-07 14:34:13
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Alice :
What county are you in?
2026-09-19 05:38:30
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me :
My husband took the high road all the time and never got one reward, she got away with 15 years of getting away with all kinds of things that always cost us money and ruined vacation time with the kids. We had all kinds of documentation too
2026-09-06 22:14:17
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irweezyy :
It's so hard to take the high road, hopefully it pays off
2026-09-18 16:54:18
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T-bird 🇨🇦 ✌️ :
I always chose restraint 100% of the time even when it burned to do so 😅 Following every rule, watching him break them, not reacting. Every single ruling went in my favor. Every time it went my way, he amped up the behavior. So staying cool sucked as it was happening 😅
2026-09-07 13:13:29
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Dan_MRTN_ :
During a visit with a 1500ft distance from her, arriving 10 minutes early and being within 100 feet of me and can’t leave cause she’s by my vehicle when my parents exchange my child, definitely reported it
2026-09-06 17:37:46
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RMattis :
I needed to hear this. But ugh, it's hard.
2026-09-06 15:26:56
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michelemora78 :
Amen
2026-09-06 16:05:04
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Amberzonian :
And why is it this way !?!
2026-09-06 16:56:39
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grodr71 :
I need help please can't afford an attorney my case is for the 22nd of this month, she always does this she always wins.
2026-10-01 14:53:13
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Jenn :
He’s always violating court orders and breaking the law. No consequences. The kids and I live under his thumb. He was rewarded for perjury on the stand.
2026-09-07 03:08:10
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@PJX :
His bad behavior is only with the child (6). He’s mean and scary and doesn’t have food for her, she comes home dirty with hair that is tangled to a point that it takes over and hour to brush out. She wears the same close for days on end and sleeps in them too. She has panic attacks before visits begging not to go, her therapist recommended joint therapy for him and the child and he refuses. We even went to the GAL asking for help getting their relationship on track. There’s no way to prove any neglect or abuse according to the GAL and she says that he’s allowed to be a bad father. He’s paid $100 towards her medical bills in four years but no one cares about that. He skips most visits and that’s fine. He moved 7 hours away the the lawyers said the child should be moved closer to him. Why? He chose to leave and not see her for three years. He takes advantage of the parts of the arrangement he likes and faces no repercussions for his bad choices and refusal to follow parts he doesn’t want to. But if the child is terrified and refuses to go, suddenly we are in contempt and it would be a problem. The system is an absolute joke.
2026-09-07 14:12:24
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Raymondhancrock :
The courts system is so broken and so are the lawyers, it doesn’t matter how much you abide by what your lawyer tells you or to be better or rise above it, etc. etc. it’s all garbage, in the end it’s a decision of what the judge feels or rather who he likes over another, if you’re a woman going through domestic violence, good luck because the judge is not going to listen to you, and they’re not gonna work in your favor, you’re going to walk away, financially destroyed,
2026-09-07 03:17:28
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Brad :
Let’s talk about dehumanizing children to try to justify separating their parents, you don’t win when you fight against your own kids family 🤔🤔 I’m very sorry for your pain 😥
2026-09-07 11:35:55
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Juicewrld999 :
🔥🔥🔥
2026-09-06 19:43:02
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