I'm not trying to make him admit anything. I want him to talk to me without defensiveness so we can figure out how to be better from that. I need actions not necessarily words.
2026-09-29 15:30:55
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j3nib33 :
"that wasnt my attention" IS defensive. that isnt the answer. the answer is: "I felt hurt" and the answer is "im sorry I hurt you. tell me more"
2026-10-10 16:33:32
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🌙 Lara :
what if he did do something wrong
2026-10-07 15:38:16
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Alexis :
Girl saying you hurt me instantly makes him defensive
2026-09-11 18:00:36
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KAT ARAPIS :
Mmm. Agree and disagree to an extent. I feel it’s more nuanced than this. Because obviously you’re the only one in control of your thoughts/actions/feelings. Cool. Doesn’t mean that you’re not *allowed* to feel those things and express them, even if they’re still your responsibility. Just like im allowed to feel tired about parenting even tho the kids are my responsibility. As well, just because someone has good intent doesn’t mean there wasn’t an unintentional impact that that person should own. Just like if my kid accidentally hurt someone with words/actjons. Still needs reparation.
2026-10-11 14:07:47
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That Guy Murph :
Thank you! Too many people try to make it sound like the intent to communicate your feelings means your partner has to just take it. We have to stop trying to make other people accountable for our feelings and the meaning we assign to their actions. Yes, there needs to be communication of hurt in relationships and the healthy way to do it is to remember that both partners need to be treated like people.
2026-10-05 13:59:30
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Tula Fae :
what happens if it is disrespect?
2026-09-07 13:06:41
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Womanresurrected :
I love that necklace!! Where can I find one?
2026-09-07 04:04:57
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oluwaferanmi :
God knows I told her this and she still said I'm making her a bad person
2026-10-07 12:40:09
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Jo ... :
Love your content! this conflict arises in several forma, So in essence it’s him saying he didn’t intend to and her stating she felt hurt …how does this “conflict resolves? What you do from here?
2026-09-15 10:41:08
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Tomini Esq :
Are you living in my head 😭😭
2026-09-26 18:19:40
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Sbru🌎 :
Erm.. he did do it. Oh so he didn't mean to do it.. so what did he mean when he did the thing that was disrespectful, inconsiderate etc?
2026-10-03 02:36:07
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2026-09-30 14:22:00
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