@lovingwhatyoudo98: When your spouse thinks EVERYTHING is always about them… pay attention. You express how you feel… they make it about their feelings. You explain what hurt you… they tell you how you hurt them. You need support… somehow they become the victim. You try to solve the problem… but now you’re defending yourself. A healthy marriage cannot survive when one person’s feelings always matter more than the other person’s. Marriage is supposed to be “WE,” not always “ME.” And sometimes the real problem isn’t that your spouse doesn’t understand what you’re saying… It’s that they’re so busy making it about themselves, they never truly hear you. 💯 Remember: You deserve to be heard too.#LoveYourselfFirst #fypシ゚viral #relatable #Mindset #Lovingwhatyoudo98