@cruelintent10ns: And we set that system up… 🫠 but in all honesty, the gay dating scene is so hard, even with a good body, even with personality, even with a good career - it is hard to find a man willing to commit to you like you would them. It really feels like, at least to me, that we have to be exceptional to even get considered as “the standard.” And y’all deserve more. #fyp #mlm #gay #dating #gaydating
Dating pool as a gay guy:
- your ex’s ex
- your friend’s ex
- the DL trade who’s gonna send you to therapy
- the 10/10 who lives on another continent
2026-09-07 08:54:46
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🌙 Elevenses🍁 :
So then be exceptional
2026-09-29 01:31:28
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Mike :
Straight people don’t realize how easy they have it
2026-09-07 01:30:54
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jj :
how it feels to exist as a gay person
2026-09-07 17:38:06
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rjslayyys :
They have an ocean and we have a puddle 😭
2026-09-07 13:33:33
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pyralloy :
First you have to find someone who's gay, then you have to be into them, then you have to hope they're near you, then you have to hope they're into you, then you have to hope they're compatible not just personally but physically too, and then you have to successfully woo them and like I'm just supposed to trust that'll all happen naturally? Hell nah.
2026-09-06 23:09:18
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80inFrench :
Me when everyone asks me “if you hate dating apps why don’t you just try to find someone IRL” bc like 3% of the population is gay hello?
2026-09-07 01:09:30
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loser lesbian lover ᡣ𐭩 :
as a lesbian sure it takes more time for us but it does happen when you least expect it trust
2026-09-26 17:25:25
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iloveabsolut⸆⸉ :
we have to be cryptic and machiavellian to get anything
2026-09-26 15:56:46
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Jah :
Lowkey just stopped sharing stuff about my love life with my straight friends cause it just be pmo like
2026-09-07 16:40:54
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mozart🐚💸 :
as a lesbian, i’ve had two girlfriends, and the first one left me for a white man so idk
2026-09-26 22:27:10
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ukbaddiee :
They don’t get it and will never understand how hard it is for us to find love
2026-09-06 23:38:40
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alcindor :
i remember reading on twt that “every successful committed gay relationship is a statistical anomaly” and that discouraged the fk outta me ngl😭
2026-09-07 13:12:27
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Luke⸆⸉ :
and if ur not hypersexual u can kiss a relationship buh bye
2026-09-07 10:19:38
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Bring :
Some of yall are only single because you have unrealistic expectations
2026-09-08 13:58:15
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Drahniar_Draconis :
exactly, this whole "everybody finds their somebody eventually" narrative might apply to you, babes, there are pleny of queer people that actually never find a partner, our worries it might happen to us when we desire a partner are grounded in reality
2026-09-07 03:55:41
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Beach please :
To put it in perspective you have to live in NYC to have the same dating pool as a man from a mid size town bc of how few OUT gay men exist
2026-09-07 13:46:25
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lala :
and they say we choose this lifestyle 😭😭
2026-09-26 07:54:30
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خربوزے >⩊< :
Add in living in a country where being gay is illegal 😻😻
2026-09-07 17:21:31
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Lee :
imagine being transgender ontop too like bruh I'm a fetish or a scarecrow to ppl nowadays
2026-09-07 05:07:30
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Scarecrow :
I'm going to die alone at this rate or worse reinstall grindr
2026-09-07 07:53:54
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Dan :
I don't want to date a coworker but it puts it into perspective when I say I'm quite literally the only (openly anyway) queer woman in the whole office lol. My whole life I could probably count on my hands the amount of times I've met a lesbian irl without specifically trying to find one (ie. dating apps or lesbian spaces)
2026-09-07 07:54:06
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AJ :
I gave up I’m just gonna focus on my career, my friends, traveling, and buying a small house by the beach or the mountains ✌️🙂↕️
2026-09-07 02:24:20
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jq (@gaygoths) :
I’m trans on top of this too
2026-09-07 09:00:00
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Ian<3 :
No cause they dont realise How hard it is to find a gay person thats: single, Likes you , you like them. NEAR in location. you have to share interests and Have chremistry too, AND THEY CANT BE FUCKED UP MENTALLY neither have dated any of your friends…REMIND YOU gay people are like a 2% in my country at least😭🙏
2026-09-07 19:00:16
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